2006-10-14 15:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To some guys, yes... To some guys, no...
Most guys don't like women that are larger than they are... However, there are guys that it doesn't bother in the least...
I would say find a guy that it doesn't bother. I heard a story of a very handsome guy, he resembled Cary Grant, the actor. He got on the plane and was sitting next to an obese woman.
She was extremely embarrassed as she was hanging over in the seat and sitting next to a very handsome man. He leaned over and said to her, "I don't know how you can stand this arm rest in the way it always seems to hit me in the hip. I wish they would redesign these seats to fit human beings..."
He put the arm rest up out of being between them... In essence, he sensed her not being comfortable and embarrassed and he allowed her to remove a barrier that seperated them.
The other women on the plane were trying to figure out why this handsome man would be taking any interest in fat girl like her.
She was so overcome, then he started to simply talk with her. He showed interest in her. Where are you going? Why are you going? What are you looking forward to when you get there?
He made her feel worthwhile. When it was time to get off the plane, he let her walk in front of her and escorted her to the baggage claim like she was a queen.
Needless to say, he had a huge impact on her life. She felt confident and alive and had self worth... She decided that if she could gain the interest of a man that handsome. She could make other changes... When she wrote in a local newspaper about her experience.. She said, "I can't thank him enough... I've got a new job and I've lost 50 pounds in 8 weeks."
Anyway, ladies, just because you have a few pounds on you. It doesn't mean that you are not worthy of a man's attention. Some sensitive guy might just turn your whole life around.
2006-10-14 16:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like girls who are slim, and who do not have much extra. I mean 10 pounds extra is OK.
That being said, I can see myself with any size of girl, well not any, but 50 pound extra, if she has a nice personality. But unfortunately I think I'm a rare breed...
PS: What I mean is that size does not matter, as far as emotions are concerned. Size, shape, beauty matters at grabbing attention. But if I get to know any girl, regardless of looks/shape, and if personality is beautiful, then I have no problem with size, or what other people say.
But the other problem is physical. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work.
2006-10-14 23:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hesse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know you wanted guys answering this....but it depends on who it is.... and me personally i like thicker guys not like overweight bam!!! but like a stalky football player..... ya need to have some meat on ya.... 150-200 is great and a little over 200's ok to good luck buddy!!!
2006-10-14 23:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't date a "fat" girl but my idea of fat is different than other people's. i certainly don't look for the skinniest girls!! i have liked lots of bigger-framed girls. they haven't been fat. girls are not built like men, they have curves and such and i love it!!!
2006-10-14 23:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter to me
2006-10-15 22:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by matt0424 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matters to me. i only date hot skinny girls. that's my type. why ask out someone i'm not into. i know, i'm shallow. i don't care.
2006-10-14 23:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter.
2006-10-14 22:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,absolutly not!
2006-10-14 23:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋