any advice...i find my b/f horribly creepy but at the same time sweet how can i dump him being nice?
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2006-10-14 15:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you have to be selfish, to a certain agree, he's going to be hurt theres no right time. Why do u find him creepy? Just be honest say nicely, "Sorry but I'm not happy in this relationship, I need some time to myself, so I can grow as a person, need be by myself for a while...." Good luck
2006-10-14 16:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking about what why you find him creepy, and how it makes you feel. Make him realize how his behavior is affecting you. Tell him you do find him sweet, but can't get past the creepiness. And definitely do your best to be respectful to him when breaking up with him, saying anything incendiary is just going to make this go very badly.
I always say, it's a law of human nature that ANY sensitive situation is always handled as badly as possible. Somehow, it just turns out that way. Tell yourself going in that you'll try to make this an exception that rule.
2006-10-14 23:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is something you don't like about him but you just cannot put your finger on it. It does happen sometimes to us with different people in our lives for no apparent reason.
Just tell him that you don't feel it's the right time for a relationship and that you want to give it a break for awhile. You can be nice about it.
2006-10-14 23:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! What do you mean by creepy? I mean you dont want him to start stalking you....or worse....can you give some more details. Just let me know what you mean by creepy and I will try and help u out.
2006-10-14 23:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just say that your sweet but it's just not working out and you'll found someone better for you. It's kinda odd that you find your bf creepy.
2006-10-14 23:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by here i am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had the same problem.
i dumped him @ a pizza place because we could talk in our booth while i told him. but then when he flipped out i was able to leave when it freaked me out.
just be nice, perhaps tell him that you think of him as more of a friend than a boyfriend.
2006-10-14 23:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by girl. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it ok see in joiner high ( last year) I broke up he was a creep. He told lies and spread romurs about us how we did some thing you do don`t what he is saying about you.. He mit be bad mouthing whit out knowing it..
2006-10-14 23:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Grace D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like "No offense but I don't think this relationship is working out. I mean you're a great guy and all but I think we'd be better off friends".
2006-10-14 23:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I normally say it straight up to the guy that we are just not clicking because our interests keep clashing ... Maybe you could try it?>!?!?!
2006-10-14 23:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's creepy about him?
2006-10-14 22:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by A Lady @ ALL Times 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋