im dating him now and its been a week and we done nothing(im still in hs btw)... but when we were friends i could talk to him more and be more active around him,but i dont wanna break up. now since im dating him i cant act crazy or be the person i am unless one of my friends is there..help!?
2006-10-14 15:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its me, im a shy person, and i dont really have much to talk about
2006-10-14 16:00:33 · update #1
Psycho, your so young, dont get all hung up on a relationship yet. Hang out with guys, have fun with them, even kiss them now and then, but no need to tie yourself down at an age where there is so much to do, and so much fricking freedom ahead! Go to college, have more fun with guys there too, graduate, have fun being single and working and messing around with guys. Then, and only then, start thinking relationship. There is way too much to do out there, and as a father, I want my daughter to experience and do whatever she wants before some lug tries to tie her down !
2006-10-14 16:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got to give it time this is my well i have been with this guy for about 1 month and i am still not TOTALY conforterble like i was but that is because you have JUST started dating! give it a couple of months if you are still shy then dump him. but first tell him how you feel (on the phone if you are still shy) dont give up! hang in there i beleiv you can make it! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-16 19:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine had the same problem and she end up breaking up with him, it's weired how the Term Dating can change everything it's probably the fact that you want to be your best around him because he's your Bf who wouldn't,you have to realize that it was the fact that you have been your self with him , and that why he likes you. sometimes it's better to just stay friends maybe you guys were moving to fast. I think that you should tell him how you feel and just be your self.
Good luck
*~kiki~*
2006-10-14 23:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? stop whining if you can't act like yourself around him then why are you dating him? you need to date someone to be yourself around if he liked you when you was friends and acted crazy then he'll like you now even when you act crazy! maybe thats the person he started to like did you ever think of that? be yourself and no one eles got it!
" If you can't be yourself then who can you be?"
~Shadow~
2006-10-14 23:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don`t you just act the same as before? i mean it`s not like he`s never seen you active before you guys went out. he might like that about you. just be yourself. if he didn`t like the real you, he wouldn`t be with you in the first place. so no need to act different just because you guys are going out. good luck ! =]
2006-10-14 23:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be yourself around him, then you either need to change that, or break up with him. Who's preventing you from being yourself, you or him?
2006-10-14 22:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you be the person you were before you all started dating? maybe thats why you two are dating maybe thats what he liked about you.......cause you were yourself and not something you werent
2006-10-14 23:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be ur self !!! foget about him! just think that he is ur friend still! dont be afraid !!
2006-10-14 23:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋