Well I like this guy and I think we have alot in common. I think we would be good together and he's so cute. Im really shy though and havent had a boyfriend in a while, so I don't know what to do. I don't want to sound desperate either. I don't know if he likes me though, but he talks to me sometimes, but he's pretty shy too. How should I figure out if he likes me?
2006-10-14 15:49:29 · 12 answers · asked by oblivious_to_the_obvious11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's shy, he probably isn't likely to make a move even if he is interested.
You're going to have to ask him.
2006-10-14 15:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just like to say, thank you for using proper English with good spelling and punctuation. It's been a little frustrating wading through the immature questions.
Since both of you are shy, you might try being a bit more aggressive. And go talk to him. Just ask him a simple question to start, something about school. My bet is, he might be interested in you but doesn't know how to ask you anything.
2006-10-14 15:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy, you need to be outgoing. Put yourself, be loud, be funny, be all smiles. Be his friend, make him laugh. When he feels comfortable around you, he'll talk a lot more and you'll get to know each other. Act off of that when you find out how he feels about you.
2006-10-14 15:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by SwinkSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are both shy i thi nk you should ask him to go somewhere alone and then make a move if he don't and if pulls you off he don't but if he lets you then he is in to you very much !!!! if th edon't work then just go and hang around some friends and the afterwards a sk him to go walking or something and then if he likes you he will make his move if not the you should make a move
vote me #if this helps
2006-10-14 15:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by cheyclarkton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he wants to do something like go to a movie sometime.
2006-10-14 15:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to him, don't rush things. Learn to open up a bit with him as you grow in your friendship, and just see where things go from there.
2006-10-14 16:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him and would be interested in getting to know him a bit better only if he too shared your feelings.
2006-10-14 15:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to go and hang out somewhere....That's a good opening for a hopeful relationship....
2006-10-14 15:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT IF YOU GUYS HAVE SOME THINGS IN COMMON LET THE FREINDSHIP GROW AND JUST SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER..
2006-10-14 15:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and ask him out.
2006-10-14 15:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by tootles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋