I was at a dance on Friday. There is this girl, that me and my friend both like. I asked him, if he was going to ask her to dance. He said "Yes". So, I wasn't gonna intervene, cuz i didn't want to cause problems. I figured there is always a next time. Well, there was like 45 minutes to go and he still didn't ask her. So I figured, he isnt gonna do it. So I asked her, and she said yes. The truth was that he was gonna ask her too(he was actually walking up to her as I was asking her.) so now he is a littled PO'd at me. What do I do?? Whose falt??
2006-10-14 15:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by Matthew J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with friends dancing. The girl has a choice to make too. It's only fair that she knows that you both like her. As to your friend explain to him that you didn't think he would ask her.
2006-10-14 15:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You take her to the dance. Tell him the truth about your intentions on asking her out to the dance... If he's a real friend he will understand the importance of your friendship and hopefully realise that it is not worth throwing away... You're both not at fault, just misunderstanding would be my verdict
2006-10-14 22:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no ones fault. Neither one of you are dating her. Both of you can dance with her and he shouldn't be mad. He didn't ask fast enough and you didn't think he was going to ask at all?! It's just a misunderstanding. No big deal. Tell him what happened and it'll be fine. I'm sure it'll blow over and he'll get over it. OK? I hope this helped.
2006-10-14 23:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones fault. He shouldnt have told you he was going to do it and wait til the last second. But then again you should have told him you had feelings for her cuz then you could have timed it.
2006-10-14 22:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. say that you figured he wasnt going to ask her and so you asked her instead. and its nobodies fault. it was just a big misunderstanding.
2006-10-14 22:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by desert_travler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his fault that he didnt walk up to her earlier....tell him since he took too long to get to her u decided to ask her instead.
2006-10-14 22:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋