Hi I need your opinions, I finally found out that the guy I like really,really likes me, but he also thinks that I'm too quiet, and shy. I really like him tough, and yes I'am a very quiet person, but the thing is I really like this guy, any opinions on what I should do,
ashley
2006-10-14 15:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you know about his feelings now . Does he think that you being quiet can affect the possible relationship between you two ? or he said just his opinion about you.
You should find out whether he really wants to have a relationship with you or not? There is a fact that you are a quiet person but it does not make you a bad girl at all. You are like this. Is he ready to open up with you about his feelings or not? is he ready to make the first move and become your bf?otherwise it is wasting the time.I would ask him if I were in your shoes because you could not just turn into a very noisy , not shy girl. You know what I mean? Good luck anyway.
2006-10-14 15:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashley,
Find things to talk about to him. IE common interests... Football, Books, School, News, whatever... Offer opinions just not as an authority... Find out what HE thinks and then offer what YOU think...
Some guys really find out they like quiet young ladies... So you can always let him talk and you interject at certain times to make it sound like you are talking more...
Try it, it can't hurt.
2006-10-14 22:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, speak up and tell hem to go to hell. It sounds to me like he is missing out on a good girl. If he liked you that much he wouldn't care if you were quiet. One day you probably will open up some more and even if you don't, he will find out that he lost out on a good thing. Don't worry about him he probably wouldn't treat you good anyway. Have a great life !
2006-10-14 22:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by black jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same way with me, but im the oppitste. i like a quiet guy. i would love it if he just came over to me and started talking to me. if your the quiet one in the realtionship thing the "not quiet" one will apprechiate it if you talk because it shows them that you really care about them enough to not be that shy.
just talk to him honey, louder people dont bite!
2006-10-14 22:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 open things!!! start talking and make more friend im the person who didnt talk much at great 5-6 but now im puping around lol! like funny bunny u should 2 lol!!
2006-10-14 22:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, NEVER compromise your self for ANYONE, especially a guy. second, if you agree with him that you are too quiet, then be more outgoing. ask him to help you if necessary. this is coming from a quiet girl.
2006-10-14 22:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by desert_travler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start hanging out with him more often...that will really force u to speak up more cos his friends will probably be talking alot and u will feel completely out of place if u dun even utter a word
2006-10-14 22:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW me too before. Just talk to him say why do like me then if I'm queit. Then he would tell you then yall will start a conversation.
2006-10-14 22:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the night and day difference.Talk his head off till he begs you to just shut up
2006-10-14 22:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by c20_6929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to open up and tell him about yourself. You know, your likes and dislikes. Things you like to do, places you like to go, hobbies you have, dreams you have,what you would like to be, etc. Things like that.. Just say what's on your mind..
2006-10-14 22:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋