okay first of all, my sister is 16 and i am 13. my sis goes on dates and all that jazz but when she does, my mum makes me wash her laundry for her, clean her rooom and do all of the other chores my sister is suppose to do!! I sorta feel like Cinderella. I dont think its fair that she gets to go out and have fun while I am here at home doing her chores!!!! What do you think?
2006-10-14 15:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Stacie Gwen Lopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no it is not fair at all, i am a parent of a 17 and 13 year old and i would not dream of having my 13 year old do the work that my 17 year old should be doing. the sad thing here is that you are 13 and she is your mother and she rules. have you talked to your mom about this at all? if not you should.and maybe and this is a big maybe talking to your sister about this might help. don't go snapping at her that you have to do what she should be doing, bla bla bla. tell her that you would really like it if she could or would do the things that she should be doing before she goes out so that your not stuck doing it. good luck dear.
2006-10-14 15:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't fair. Your sister shouldn't be going out until SHE does ALL of HER chores FIRST. You shouldn't be doing them for her!? I'm sure you have your own to do. Everyone has their own set of things to do around the house, it's not fair to have only one person doing them.
You need to sit down with your mother and tell her how you feel. Let her know that just because you are 13 doesn't mean she should be treating you differently as far as chores go. Your sister needs to do them also!!
2006-10-14 23:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it isn't fair cause those are her chores not yours so i think you need to sit your parents down and tell them what you think and how this makes you feel and tell them that you are tired of being your sisters slave but say this in the most nice and respectful way you can and then see if they can make your sister understand how you feel.good luck and i hope these words help.
2006-10-14 22:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sis shouldn't be going out if she's not even gunna do her laundry!! She may be busy, but she needs to make time for these things, instead of making you do them. I'm only one year older then your sis.
2006-10-14 22:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree the same us to happen to me. Jus go to your mom in a respectful manner and let her know how you feel. She should be able to work something out with you. If you go to her like a little spoiled brat, that wont work. Try to be as grown up as possible, but RESPECTFUL. Trust me it works!
2006-10-14 22:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by alphashewolf86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree I dont think thats fair and I think you should sit down with your mother and tell her how you are feeling. I hope it works and good luck!
2006-10-14 22:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by atc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should show your mum this question you have written and tell her how it makes you feel.
2006-10-15 12:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think it's unfair Just because i believe Equality Should Be Follow In Every part of your Life & wat your'e made to do is totally wrong
2006-10-14 22:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Yasir Mansoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that's bs.
2006-10-14 22:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋