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Question

I found out im having a boy. we like malachi, but cant think of a middle name? please help us with that.
Also do you find yourself so stress out woring that something might go wrong with the baby. im 20 weeks and when i went to my ultra sound im thinking that everything is wrong. i keep on looking at the pitures thinking that the baby doesnt have any legs or other stuff ( i can see the legs but not so clear ab out the feet ). could his feet be hiding or maybe i just cant see it> This is my forth preg. i had two miscarrages and lost twin boys after birth. what can help not to make myself so stress out. my husband tells me everything looks good to him. I will be perfectly happy with a baby no matter what the health is. but im just concern that there might be something more wrong with my baby.
I wont see my doctor until the end of the month to find out about the ultrasound. Let me know what helped you to be less stresssful about everything

Answer 1

stress is very unhealthy for you and baby during and after pregnancy. drink a cup of hot tea and relax in a warm bath not hot. Sleep on your left side to promote healthy blood exchange with the baby and take it easy. Your stress is what will hurt you the most. You will make it through this pregnancy and be a mom in no time at all. Bless you and light an aromatherapy candle and take sometime to be happy about your pregnancy and not worry about the small stuff. Baby is fine always until a doctor tells you differently.

Good luck and Bless you and your family.

Answer 2

I think if everyone could easily make out the legs and feet and 'read' the pictures, then no one would have to go to school for that! Malachi is a nice name, are you checking out lots of name books from your library to help with your choices? Is there a family name you would liike to choose? If you have a short last name (like Smith, Jones, etc.) how about Malachi Cameron? If you have a long last name, then the middle name should be short, like one syllable. As far as stressing, if it helps you, pray. My friend has had 6 miscarriages, and 2 gorgeous little boys. A lot of heartache, but she said she would have gone through it all again to have them, even though it was awful going through that at the time. One of them did have a clubfoot, but I guess that can be helped with surgery now. Just console yourself with the thought that you are doing everything possible to have a healthy baby and really educate yourself on everything you should be doing, which I am sure you are already doing. I will pray for you that everything goes well.

Answer 3

Don't worry!! I had 2 miscarriages before I had a 8 pound 11 oz. baby girl that is now 4 years old and healthier than ever with all her fingers and toes intact!! I worried the whole 9 months with her and in the end realized that I should of just enjoyed the whole experience!! I have since had a 8 pound 9 oz. boy to that I named Trevor Shane and he is healthy to!!! You just have to make yourself get past the worrying and be happy that you are growing a beautiful little boy inside you right now that will make you so proud when you first look into his little face!!! And I think that Malachi Manning is a good one to, just like the first girl said, very nice ring to it!!! Good luck and best wishes!!

Answer 4

I understand how you feel because I was the same exact way because my doctor made me paronoid because he kept on stressing me about my age, which is 36 and he kept telling me that I might have a retard because I am pass 35. He kept on suggesting that I take the Amino test and I said no because I will deal with what ever God gives me. He also suggested that I should consider and abortion, if the baby has a problem. I told him that an abortion is not an option and he needs to stop forcing me to do something that I do not want to do.

He finally left me alone but deep down inside I was beginning to be scared. I am 34 weeks now and I said what ever is going to happen will happen and there is nothing that I can do about it. I will love my baby no matter what happens. I am having a boy too.. Good Luck, too you and your baby will be fine....

Answer 5

Malachi Lee, Malachi Adam, Malachi Jade, Malachi Derek, it depends a lot on the last name too. I named my daughter Heather Lee instead of Heatherleigh because I couldn't come up with a middle name...Good luck.
Worrying is normal and it might get worse. Just try to focus on anything positive that the Dr. says on your visit. I'm sure He's fine. They would have gotten you in sooner if ther was something wrong. Just try to take warm baths, some aromatherapy using lavender to relax you would be good and don't listen to anyones tales of their pregnancy and delivery. If someone starts, just politely ask them to not go on. You have the right to be left to your own thoughts. Read something like Chicken soup for the Soul or something positive when you have time to do that. Just remember whatever is going to be is going to be and you are going to be just fine!!! Congrats!!

Answer 6

a middle name, that is up to you and your husband. It is your chance to pick a middle name for a baby boy! Congrads! and this is also a democracy for you and your partner. Another of your problem is you are really stress. All i have to say, is eat all the sweets (not to much) and relax. whenver i am stress i think about all the good things. No matter what happens, you really can not do much. i know it is going to be hard even all the experiences you have been through, but relax and put your feet up.

Answer 7

Malachi
Nissan (not my fave) It means miracle.
Peleh same as Nissan
Ejaz same
Breindel means blessing Malachi Breindel not bad
Rain means abundant blessings

I looked up those meanings because the baby is so special. I don't know if you'll like any of them, but I figured they have meaning. I type in the google search "baby name meaning...". Congrats and good luck!

Answer 8

Don't worry yourself. If they found something wrong in the ultrasound they will contact you before your next appointment. I didn't think my baby had feet either. I think its just something that gets over looked when they are looking for much more important vital organs. Good luck with your pregnancy and take it easy on yourself.

Answer 9

#1 you should know by now after as many as you have had.. Stressing is the LAST thing you should be doing. Just trust in your heart that everything will be ok no matter how it ends up and you both will be ok. Worrying only makes it harder on you and the baby.

Malachi Jacob sounds good to me.

Answer 10

i think that malcchi manning sounds nice! it is really normal that you would think that something is wrong with the baby. every mother does weathe it's the 1st or the 10th. you just want everything to be perfect, and don't worry....he will be!