I NEED HELP!!!!
2006-10-14 15:35:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You Guys Have Really Helped Me Alot. Guess What! I Got A New Dog To Get My Mind Off Things. I Feel Better And I Want To Give A Warm Thanks To All Of You Who Commented You have All Touched My Heart In Ways You May Never Know But Please Continue To Give People Comments Like You Gave Me Because They Helped Me Through A Rough Time And Im Eternally Greatful. I Love You All,
My Deepest Gratitude,
Whitney
2006-10-14 17:10:38 · update #1
Breakups are never easy, and obviously in this situation, can be more painful with a friend involved. I don't know your situation, but in my opinion, a girlfriend wouldn't do that to another friend. They are both guilty in this situation.
For now, concentrate on you. Do things that make you feel good. Have a bubble bath, go to the movies, go shopping, cry your eyes out, do things that are good therapy for yourself. Surround yourself with positive and nuturing people. Obviously, right now you will be angry, and in pain, but try to keep busy - trust me - it helps get your mind off things.
When time has passed and you feel a bit better about things, then you can decide whether it is in your heart to forgive you friend. For now though, I would suggest space - space from your ex, your friend, and any negativity.
Just spend time being with you and loving yourself, because you deserve love and are a very special person!
Time heals, and although it might now feel like that now, have hope. This soon will pass.
2006-10-14 15:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, sorry, but you need to chill.
Chances are you guys are in high school or early 20s, this crapp is gonna happen between u and ur friends. You just have to understand that guys come and go, but friendship will rule out in the end. You may be really mad right now, but if u guys were broke up, he's game for anything. Jerks love to hit close to home too, chances are he's just using her to make u upset.
Don't hate her forever. Because this relationship wont last.
2006-10-14 15:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, the first thing you need to do is take a few deep breaths. now think about it for a second.yes this was an offal thing for your friend and boyfriend to do.and I'm sure you are mad and hurt, but you are better than they are as a person I'm sure. don't let them know that this has hurt you in any way. trust me, before you know it your friend and boyfriend are going to feel ashamed of what they have done and are going to want your forgiveness. but don't give it to them. you move on and don't let them see how much they hurt you. pick your self up and realize that you don't need or want people like this in your life anyway. good luck hey smile its going to be ok. there is someone out there just waiting for you.
2006-10-14 15:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are 2 people you really do not need in your life any more make as much distance as you can between you and them those are dangerous people,believe me been there done that,hurts like but guess what there is a better love waiting for you out there.now I must say I was very greatful to my gf for what she did or I would not have found out much how love there was out there for me.Keep the faith and love love love your self,until love find you.
2006-10-14 15:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some best friend... Maybe she'll treat him bad out of respect for you...
My advice is to find a new best friend out of your pool of friends... As far as your b/f, be thankful he did not extend your relationship any farther. Apparently, he wanted to get to your friend. He is a user and you are better off without the bum.
Have a good cry, you beat a punching bag, and then for another guy.
Sorry you are hurt... X (kiss) on the cheek to make you feel better... He's not worth your time and effort...
2006-10-14 15:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is mess up but check this out try thinking of it this way if it will help. you should be thanking your friend for saving you from such a *** hole and thanking him for shoeing you she is a back stabber. and why do you want to be with that jerk. what does he have a6 pack (so does a cock roach). Just try thinking of every reason in the world of why you are better then him and her why you don't need them. They are below you let them have each other you will go higher up the chain why they are stuck with each other and they are both back stabers that's all they will ever ddo to each other. When I am upset thinking like this helps me get over it maybe it will work fo ryou . You are better they are dirt. try it. best of luck have a better night sweetie
2006-10-14 15:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO FIND A NEW BEST FRIEND AS WELL AS A BOYFRIEND. IF YOUR BEST FRIEND WAS A TRUE FRIEND THEY WOULDN'T HAVE GONE OUT WITH YOUR EX. TAKE SOME TIME TO GET OVER THE BREAKUP AND ASK YOUR FRIEND WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON. CHECK THE LENGTH OF THE FRIENDSHIP AND FIGURE OUT IF YOU NEED THIS PERSON AS A FRIEND? GET PAST THE ANGER, DON'T PLAN ANY THING TO GET BACK AT ANYONE JUST WAIT, AND WHATEVER GOES AROUND WILL COME BACK AROUND. I'VE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE..........................
2006-10-14 15:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your mad and I know how this feels. But look at the big picture. He nor She is worth your time. A person puts to much energy into being mad. Just look at it this way is it worth staying together if its not going to work in the end? And your bestfriend is not really your bestfriend. You better than that!
2006-10-14 15:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by mlbaker123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't walk the dog.right now your ex- is truly your X. he's nowhere in the game. relationships are seeing how well one can cope with the other and who can be truest,if thats a word. he showed you that he cannot deal with a real woman so please be proud of yourself. your girlfriend of course is the most BIGGEST LOSER to walk the planet earth. she was desparate enough to take leftovers then she deserves what she gets. now its your turn to shine. don't look for help,look for a life. one BOY doesn't make your life go smooth. it's up to you to get things back to order. this time around make it all you. YOU DESERVE IT BABY. i told you i wasn't going to cry anymore. keep your bestfriend as just an acquaintance(at a distance)so when you get MR.RIGHTshe and he can eat their hearts out
2006-10-14 15:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Denton P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It became incorrect of her to try this, yet psychological matters are extreme. people recover from them, yet on occasion they dont.rigidity may be detrimental consistent with how a individual deals with it. once you're a solid buddy to her, you may desire to be apprehensive approximately her and the state she's in. i'm able to comprehend why you would be aggravated with what she did and that i comprehend why you may call her out on it. in basic terms submit to in concepts that she's..somewhat diverse ^^;; the subsequent time you 2 are speaking, carry it up gently. do not come off as once you're choosing a combat together with her. If she nonetheless takes it the incorrect way, it must be time to distance your self for somewhat, just to coach her you're extreme. it's going to remind her that if she's consistently hurting you, you may't be a solid buddy to her.
2016-10-16 05:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋