Have you ever had a crush on someone that does'nt notice you? Even though you moved away and it has been 4 years he's still in the back of your mind? And you still like him? But even though you're in a great relationship you still have him in the back of your mind? I want to know cause this happened to me?
2006-10-14 15:29:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a crush on a guy years ago and sometimes I still think of him - just because I think it would have worked but the circumstances never brought us together. I just think its the image of it could have being good rather than an unperfect reality of a relationship that makes me think about it - its the longing for a realistic fantasy.
2006-10-14 15:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it happened to me even though theres a sweet guy in my life right now at times the boy ihad a crush on still flashes back into my mind. The thing is you loved that person but you cant tell them because your not sure if they will love you the same.
2006-10-14 15:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature.. we always want what we can't have. In the back of your mind you have a fantasy of what kind of person he is. But you really don't know him other then what you have seen. Maybe he's not all that. Maybe he's a really good looking dweeb who treats his girlfriends really badly. Stop wasting time looking back before you lose the great relationship you are in now.
2006-10-14 15:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you have a crush on somebody that you don't really know, you tend to turn him into Mr.Perfect. And it makes them even more enticing when they dont pay particulary close attention to you --- human nature --- you like and want what you cant have.
My experience...once you get to know the crush, you might not end up liking him. He might have different interests, likes, hobbies, etc,
Focus on the person in your current relationship -- after all, he's real and close to you... the real thing
2006-10-14 15:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by soju999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have? And if you wan't to get him out of it ask yourself do you love the person that your with know if not go find the man that you have a crush own and find out weature if he has you in the back of his mind and you can determined if you still wan't him in the back of your mind.
2006-10-14 15:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here, i think its a physological thing and i know what you mean lol..........i try to shut all my memory of the previous guy out though and it kinda helps but some how it ways come crawling back .......kinda scary actually but oh well good luck the pain will go away soon lol
2006-10-14 15:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question should be.."Have you ever loved someone so much so that it hurt, and was the pain so bad you couldn't deal with it?" . The fact is, I have...and yes, it does.
2006-10-14 15:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. That's perfectly normal. It's happened to me multiple times.
2006-10-14 15:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happened to me up until August 25 of this yr i loved this one guy from my old school and it has been 5 yrs and i found someone else and i love him more than anything
2006-10-14 15:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehe
been there done that
don't worry
if you don't think you'll see him again, it's ok
try to enjoy the relationship you're in, but you don't have to forget about him completely
try to let go of him little by little, and don't let your missing him affect your current relationship
2006-10-14 15:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋