how should i break up with some one? harsh words like a knife through the heart or in a nicer tone?
why are some guys jerks?
when you dump them they seem to not get it why is that and when they do they smart the name calling game?
can a guy just be friends with a girl?
thx ppl
2006-10-14 15:18:22 · 11 answers · asked by confused 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should ever end a relationship by yelling. It serves no purpose and neither does name calling. Just politely say your going to stop seeing him. If you live at home with your parents that is the place to do it. That way you can just walk in the house if he gets too upset.
If he ask why and he will tell him in as nice a way as you can. Don't be cruel just state the facts ( you feel it is a dead end situation ) you are not enjoying being with him like you were earlier so your going to stop going out with him.
2006-10-14 15:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly i would break up with the guy nicely because other guys will notice it and there might be some really nice guy out there who likes you but doesn't want to go out with you because of the way you have treated or broken up with previous guys. Secondly not all guys are jerks lol, but yes a lot of them are and that is only because they are like us girls and very complicated lol. Some guys don't get it because maybe your not making yourself clear enough or your sending out mixed signals others just don't want to break up so they just sorta ignore it, when they do get it they are pissed off and when people get pissed off they tend to say stuff they do not mean. Nobody likes to be rejected. YES guys can be friends with girls. I am friends with a lot of guys actually
2006-10-14 22:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in being friends after a breakup. guys sometimes take breakups like a crack in their egos so they start with the name calling and the ignoring you etc.... if you have to break up with this guy, just tell him the truth and if he's mature he may take it without any name calling or else get ready for it...
2006-10-14 22:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity
2006-10-14 22:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have no reasons to just be friends with a girl. Especially one who has just rejected him.
2006-10-14 22:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just either first start a fight then end the fight by saying you cant do it anymore.
OR
just be straight up and tell him that you dont want a relationship and you want to end up, but you still want to be friends.
2006-10-14 22:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him i dont think we should go togther and yea i have a boi thats my friend and we been friends for 2 years and havent went out with each other
2006-10-14 22:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandria♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very difficult for a guy to be just friends. the sex always gets in the way.
2006-10-14 22:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not possable for most guys it is an ego thing
2006-10-14 22:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore and move away. have positive thinking and better life.
2006-10-14 22:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋