I have been nothing but a nice guy to girls, yet they all destroy me. Do women really like jerks?

Answer 1

First, to answer your question. I for one do-not-like-jerks!! About the other issue: I am sorry to hear that women are taking your kindness for weakness. I wish that people in relationships would be upfront and real about it. It's sad that so many people have issues within themselves that they take it out on others. You should change the women you are meeting. I mean, expect more out of them then what you are getting. I hope this makes sense. A change of lifestyle begins within, therefore, the type of women you have met, JUST ARE NOT WORKING! Choose a different bunch out of the normal character you've been picking. Finally, define what a "nice guy to girls" is, and look for women, not girls. Unless you are playing games with them. Tricks are for KIDS. Best regards.

Answer 2

Stop trying to be the nice guy. Being nice is viewed as a weakness. Makes you look like a pu$$y. That's why you're getting chewed up and spat out. You have to act like you don't give a fcuk.

Follow these rules and you'll be okay.

1. NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she won’t have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!

2. Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money; you decide where you are going and what you are doing.

3. Don't ask a woman what she wants to do.

4. Never tell a woman how much money you make.

5. Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rat’s @ss about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble. Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

6. Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.

7. NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point; you will NOT get laid when women are in groups. They will run interference on the one you have your eye on. Don’t bother.

8. If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.

9. No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!

10. Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.

11. NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.

And listen to Tom Leykis on Free FM.

Answer 3

Good question , i think about that all the time, a friend of mine is dating this guy who treats her so bad but yet she still loves him, I'm a women and if someone was to ask me that question i would probably say no "why would i like a jerk" , but at the same time the people i fall for are jerks, LOL. So i guess you just have to be more firm with girls , you have to act like a Man. I'm not saying go a head and treat women like crap, I'm just saying you have to tough-in up and stand out , u noe.

good luck, hope that help

*~KiKi~*

Answer 4

its not your time yet .....the one for you will come and woman don't like jerks its just that jerks are so good at hiding their behind or the three letter word that begins with an "a" until we have been with them long enough so some of us don't even know that they are jerks ,jerks impersonate nice guys and maybe that is why we destroy you cuz maybe we think you are too nice. but you know what keep being the nice guy you are some day a girl who appreciate you will see lol and you will have happiness with her lol

Answer 5

Ever asked your self if you like the people that is just following you, and giving you stuff? probably for a few days, after that... you are just bored and may be irritated with the idea... get out of that mindset...
Woman don't like jerks of course... learn how to joke, how to be confident with your self feed your self and exercises so you can have plenty of energy, and DON'T bother trying to get her at all cost, just relax, put your own contribution and turn around, woman dig this!!! After that, be a little bit of jerk but always make sure she knows you are playing around... not actually being an insecure jerk.

Answer 6

It isn't anything to do with you a person just realizes that your not the right one. You need to think about what you want and you should know if you really want to be treated in what ever way your being treated if not, you be in control and say hey your not for me and move on stop waisting you time on girls that are going to treat you wrong and find one that treats you the way you should or want to be treated. Nice guys win in the end don't worry there is someone waiting for you. Remember life is to short so don't waist anymore of your time on anyone that will do you wrong and be thankful that your not with them.

Answer 7

Of course they do. Women will SAY they like nice guys who have a great personality, but thats only because they don't want to seem shallow. I've known women who have left a really nice guy for a guy who has a reputation for violence towards women. It don't make sense, but then again women aren't meant to make sense.

Answer 8

women do not like jerks. we may go out with them now but in the long run, we want the nice guys. if youre really a nice guy, your the husband type, not the dating type. but girls like the husband type more, even if we dont show it.

Answer 9

I have passed up a few nice guys to date jerks. I was young then. I've grown up. I think for some reason it's the danger of it that makes it attractive. Steering clear of that now.

Answer 10

omg, i have the same problem, i have always been nice with guys and yet they hurt me all the time. All i do is try to love them and understand them, and be interested in their problems and hug them and be with them when they are going trough a hard time. And all i get back is nothing, nothing at all, and not that i expect something but i mean, cant they be at least honest with me??????? buuuuuuuu i feel so sad