Even though we dont really have that intimate a relationship, it's like hes my friend, and when I'm around him it's like I'm wit one of my friends. As I mentioned in another question we've had sex, there was foreplay, he touches on me ( i dont want to go too explicit) but yea, I touch him, he just hasn;t kissed me.
ALso though, when we have sex he gets right off of me, and then he'll take me home. I've always though he was playin me taking advantage of me for sex, but then again I thought it might just be his own issue you know? But like I said we coo as homies and before we had sex he used to kick it over my brothers house we'd all just chill.
.. But on some real he's playin me huh?!?!?
2006-10-14 15:16:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg that sounds just like the relationship I was in.
the only time he would call or want to "chill" was when he wanted to have sex so then i thought the same questions i even asked the same questions on yahoo answers(if you don't belive me check)
and then as i was going with him it just clicked like im really getting used by him.
So even though it was hard it was like losing a best friend but after i did it i kind of felt released of being confused or used
2006-10-14 15:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that firmly believes kissing is more intimate than sex. She always jokes that with guys she doesn't like, she'll do anything except kiss and hold hands! hha
My feeling is, if he's comfortable enough to have sex and then "gets right off", but not comfortable to kiss you ...theres just something wrong there. You definitely deserve someone who would treasure you and would want to kiss you every moment!
2006-10-14 22:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by soju999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If eh won't kiss you, he doesn't care about you and if after you have sex, he just gets up and takes you home, then I'm sorry to say, he's definitely playing you! I know it's easier said than done, but stop seeing him and get someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
2006-10-14 22:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is, if yall did all of that, and he still won't kiss u, or ask u out, then u need 2 stop and talk to him. Don't just stop hanging with him, bc then he might think differently of u. Just sit down, and have a talk with him, about how u feel, and just take it from there.
(Maybe he was just ur 1 nite stand,.......... but then again, he should of kiss u, so forget that)
2006-10-14 22:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know to tell you the truth. If a guy cant have the nerve to kiss a girl then most likely he is. Just tell him how you feel, it should change
2006-10-14 22:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow this relationship to be strictly sexual, he is just going to take it as it is. If you feel more than just sex........you should put a stop to it. If not, stop complaining!
2006-10-14 22:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by johnblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex MOVE ON...before you get pregnant
2006-10-14 22:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm.. yea. he seems to be playing you.
if you want to continue the sexual activies, than dont say anything, but if you want him to stop playing with you, you should talk to hhim about it. ya`know?
2006-10-14 22:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by GEEKiNTHAPiNK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts then dump him and find the real thing.
2006-10-14 22:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋