How is it that upon first meeting, I felt immediately comfortable with him?

Question

Why is it that with, some you sense it automatically, and with others, you never feel comfortable?

Answer 1

I think it has to do with fate. Some people you will never like; never see eye to eye with; never get along with. Other people you blend together beautifully. I think this has to do with past lives. The people we are bonded to in this life, we knew before. But there is always good and bad - so some people we meet that give us problems, we have unresolved issues with from past lives. It's all about maintaining the balance.

Answer 2

Everybody has their own energy. Animals pick it up immediately and respond to us based on what they sense. The person you felt comfortable with has a good energy and it's compatible with yours.

When I met the fella I am dating now (3 year ago) it was an instant feeling of comfort and secure. His energy was the same as my own and we both felt it. Not only that, but we thought the same things at the same times.

We met at a restaurant for lunch (our first date) and I drove myself. I never felt self concious, or bored when we had the periodic dead air. I didn't feel the need to fix my make up or mess with my hair. I felt completely comfortable being myself 100%, because his vibe (or energy) was so nice.

Well after lunch he offered to drive me to my car. I said OK.. but I was thinking..." Gosh, I really don't know this guy...he's probably going to chop my body up and hide me somewhere..." Just when he said, "And no, I'm not going to chop you up and hide you somewhere..." It was so freaky it was hilarious and we are still like that to this day. Three years later.

And you know, sometimes if you don't ever feel comfortable around someone.. TRUST your feelings. That person may have bad energy and isn't worth trusting.

Answer 3

It's life. It's love. It's trust. It's just simply us.
Things are not always to be unanswered. Life's a mystery not a written book...it's unfinished. Sometimes we have to go with whatever feelings arise and go from there...don't question those feelings and aspects of life because those are the true wonders of life. The things you actually wait for because when it comes to finding the right person, you hope that one day...someday...you'll walk into a guy and see him and his reaction to you banging into him...and know that he's the one you've been waiting for..the one who you've seen in your dreaming...wanting to be woken up by him. Yeap...that's a mystery.

Answer 4

Some people have a connection and start off with a lot in common with each other. Some are gifted conversationalists and know how to include the other person in the conversation.

Answer 5

This could be a double edged sword for you. Being comfortable often leads to boredom given time.

Nervousness, is often the first sexual attraction, etc...

Give yourself time to see how you feel once you really get to know the person.

Answer 6

That's one of the great mysteries. Sometimes you feel a personal magnestism that attracts and sometimes that repels. I think we tend to like people who are like ourselves in a lot of subtle ways.

Answer 7

Its just an instinct thing. If you know their past and you know they are a god person you tend to fall easier than normal. Its normal dont worry, just dont open up too fast. Take it slow, good luck though!

Answer 8

It's a matter of feeling "safe".
If you meet someone and they seem "safe", you will feel comfortable.
If you meet someone and you see them suddenly start yelling and screaming and waving their arms, then you will probably wonder what their problem is and you will feel less that 100% "safe".

Answer 9

its the person itself and some ppl put on a show to try to impress others and trying to keep up that image is so hard they end up screwing up ,,,,but with the ones that are just being themselves are the ones that look at you and not what they can get....

Answer 10

He's what you call a gentleman, which is hard to find.