My boy-friend of 2 years wants me,him and his friend Dylan to have a 3 some. I am still a virgin and i'm only 13. Should I do it or no?
2006-10-14 14:23:23 · 17 answers · asked by goofygoober101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend wants me to have a 3 some with him and his friend. I am 13 and still a virgin. I'm torn because I really Really like my bf, but I don't want to get STD's or get pregnant. What should I do? Thanks to all who answer.
2006-10-14 14:38:14 · update #1
oh and a bj
2006-10-14 14:45:13 · update #2
Don't you even think about it, first of all your bf or so call bf do not have any respect for you, knowing that you are a virgin, he just want to satisfy his ego and just because he is not a virgin he has no right to take yours, and further more he wants you to have intercourse with his friend also, as far as i can see he and his friend only have one thing in mind to score on you and who know they might tell the whole world that you were stupid enough, sorry to say, fall for it, because of your age, that's just talking about abuse and used. What do you think, do you think your bf and his friend cares about you, they will treat you as another one of their toys and once they got what they want, goodbye and of course you will probably have to live with a disease or even AIDS for the rest of your life. Don't mess up you life now, you have a whole life ahead of you and don't let these guys ruin what God have given you, a clean and unused and unabused wanderfull young girl who will soon become a woman that will meet a real man in her life and will give up her virginity and have a happy marrige and healthy kids, think about that for a moment before you do something that you will regret for the rest of your life. Don't try to fit in like the other girls, they have their reward, some of them may have AIDS or STD and not even telling anyone, because many are so ashamed and scared to even tell anyone, and they have to live with it for the rest of their lives, some even will ruin others because of what they went through, if they had known or someone had told them before, they would not go that way, as i am telling you right now. If you say that you love your bf tell him that your body is only for one man and that man will be the one that you will get married to, only when you reach of age and have finished school and even have a career and has a steady job, and living life to the fullest. As the saying goes, take my stupid advise and work with it and see if it does not work, and if it does work, thank God for looking over you.
2006-10-14 15:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTH!?!?! Your 13 and asking a question like this??!?! I should slap you silly, you goober!
When I was 13 (I am only 20 now... so I am not "old") I didnt even know what a freaking 3 some was! And even today, there is NO way in h$(( I would have a 3 some! Ick ick dirty... blllllahhhh!
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Don't do it. I guarentee you that after you do this 3 some, he will dump you and him and his friend will tell the whole school and you will become the "whore of 8 grade (or whatever grade)". I lost my virginity right after I became 14.... I regret it to this day. Before I knew it, I was at his friends house feeling like I was being talked into a 4 some (me, boyfriend, his friend who by the way was in his mid 20's!!!, and some sl*t girl who was around 17 or 18 that lived down the street). I never agreed to it though.... my then-boyfriend ended up cheating on me with some older girl and threw me out like trash. You do not need to give your body and soul to him just yet at this point in life. If you do, its something you can never get back. Besides, if he loved you and was meant to be with you, he would wait for you and not force you to do something as serious as this.
A couple weeks after he left me, I met the man I am proud to say is my husband. My husband has never dared ask me to do such a thing. He has more respect for me than that.
2006-10-14 14:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13?! It's a damn good thing you're still a virgin! I'm 14, and even I consider sex at such a young age wrong. Especially a threesome, as your protection might not be as foolproof as you think, and you might end up ruining the rest of your life. If he breaks up with you because you don't give him this, be glad to know that you've left a total loser, and go find a real man.
2006-10-14 15:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Keyring 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sex at 13 is just way to young. You have no idea how this will affect you. The fact that your "boyfriend" wants you to have a threesome is a BIG red flag. The second it happens, there goes your reputation. You don't honestly think the two of them are going to keep it a secret do you? You will be branded a s*** and it was only your first time. Do not have this threesome, heck don't even have sex. If he loves you, he'll wait for you. The two of you are way to young for this.
2006-10-14 14:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well....lets talk about sex first off. You are 13..very young and in my honest opinion, too young to be having sex period. Let alone threesomes. You have all your adult life to experiment in adult sexual situations. Teens will start talking and i'm sure the last thing you want is to have a reputation for being a person with little or no morals at such a young age.
the choice is entirely yours...but think of yourself first...don't give in to please others if you sacrifice your self esteem .
2006-10-14 14:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, are you nuts. Have some respect for yourself. You are only a baby. If your boyfriend wants to share you then he doesn't have much respect for you. He is obviously with you for only one reason. Your virginity and body is a special gift. There is lots of time for sex when you're older. Find a new boyfriend who cherishes you and wouldn't share his girl.
2006-10-14 14:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by carmieaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not!!!!!! Don't ruin your reputation for your boyfriend. Save your virginity for someone who deserves it. You are only thirteen years old your whole life is ahead of you. Let me share with you a two letter words that has a lot of impact.......NO it will keep you out of a lot of trouble. God Bless You
2006-10-14 14:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mae G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. For god's sake you are only 13! save yourself for a real man who wants to keep you to himself.
2006-10-14 14:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Superman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should never do something you don't feel like doing. plus your too young to be doing something like that. And if he really likes you he'll understand and won't keep asking you and saying he'll break up with you.
2006-10-14 14:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by here i am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him fast....find a bf who will show you some respect.
2006-10-14 14:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋