She and I both have other people we are currently with. but we just can't seem to stay away from each other. I know its not far to the other people but there are other factors involved.
she stays on the other side of the world but visits me regularly, as do I. What the heck should I do? I am so deeply confused.
2006-10-14 14:19:45 · 14 answers · asked by Man_With_No_Name 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a retard and jjust stay away from her
2006-10-14 14:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are not happy in your other relationships then end the relationship. Is it that your not happy in your relationship or that you just like this other person too much? Whatever you do I think the best is not to cheat. End the relationship before cheating. Cause, you would not like that done to you right? Unless you already have, I don't know but it is not fun being cheated on, I know.
2006-10-14 21:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by sassygirl2473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her are both feeling each other try it. I mean you and her both see each other as much as possible or atleast when you get a chance. I will tell you that long distant relationships are hard but if both of you are willing to try it then go for it. As for the other people that both of you are seeing, well your right its not fair to them. You really need to decide who you both want more. Good luck with your decision.
2006-10-14 21:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't exactly call yours a relationship... it's more of a "friends with benefits " thing. hey, it doesn't seem like either of you is ready for any serious relationship ( and if I were you, I would advise your current boy/girl that you don't want anything serious ) so why not enjoy the time you spend together ???
2006-10-14 21:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL neither of you can really love one another or you would be faithful SO the best thing to do is to call it a day, DONT waste anymore of each others lifes, in this day of viruses why put your neck in a noose,
2006-10-14 21:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest either keep your long distance relationship with her or with the local lady but not both and incidentally does the local one know you're cheating on her.
2006-10-14 21:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're deeply confused? Okay. How about sleeping with one person for a change.
2006-10-14 21:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are both cheating on each other and u guys r cool with it, i say stay together...maybe the long distance messes with ur brains
2006-10-14 21:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some needs in some people just never get fulfilled ! quit wile you are ahead!!nothing changes until its too late to be happy. spent 40 yrs hoping cheater would quit...didn't happen, never thought getting even worth it.tried it!
2006-10-14 21:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by rnstnhicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt seem like a healthy releationship so i would sit her down and really talk to her and talk about what would be the best for both of you. good luck!
2006-10-14 21:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by aeiorjklsdjf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is what you are looking for not love so keep playing your game untill somebody comes along that you fall in love with,that away you want be with out sex.
2006-10-14 21:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋