i want to ask my family why they dont like me, how do i go about it?? Not good with words.?

Answer 1

Ask them by saying, "I feel like you don't like me. Please be honest, because if this is true, I would like to make things better between us?" They'll probably say no, of course not, and then ask you why. Then you explain why you feel this way. You should be able to work it out with them. Try not to get upset if they tell you something you don't want to hear. Just except it as their opinion, and if you can make things better, do what you gotta do.

Answer 2

You may be opening a can of worms, as you are asking the wrong question, if you ask what is WRONG with me they will find some thing. What you might ask is" things do not seen to be going too well, WHAT might I do to make them better" can you see the difference is the way the question is phrased, that way you will get a good idea of what to do. good luck

Answer 3

i think you should only ask if they actually have come out and said they dont like you. otherwise you are assuming they dont like you because of how they treat you. and from i can guess, as the oldest of five kids (i'm 33 and the youngest is 18) we love each other no matter how we treat each other. it's not an excuse to be ugly or disrespectful but sometimes people dont grow up when it comes to treating their family with respect. they think the fact they love each other will make up for bad behavior. you dont need to know why they dont like you, IF INDEED they dont like you. what you need to do is figure out how to live apart from that. in other words lets say you had this "meeting" and you ask why they dont like you. and they say...well you have a big nose. i know it's a stupid answer but bare with me, i'm trying to make a point. well now you have the answer as to why they dont like you. are you gonna change for them!?!? why would you!?!? if you have to ask them why they dont like you that means you can't recall anything bad you did to them. so why should you sit around and listen to their excuses for why they dont like you? you should live life as best you can and not apologize for things you dont think you did. good luck! them not liking you is THEIR problem, not yours. love yourself enough to ignore them and their toxic behavior.

Answer 4

Just say "is there some reason you don't like me"

but be prepared for the answers

You may just have to reach a point in your life, where you don't care rather or not if the like you. I have family members that don't like me and I couldn't care less (but took me alittle while to get to that point)

Answer 5

If, after you know the answer to "why" they don't like you, then How are you going to handle that (change - to gain their approval OR not care - to not)?
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Now, does it really matter "why" they don't like you?
Yes, then change something and if they like that, is it you or what you did differently that they like?

hmm...

No. then why ask?
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I was abused as a child and survived long enough to not care why I was not wanted for myself. I'm glad to be away from them.
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Answer 6

Let them no that you have a complex when dealing with them & that will open up to why . Which will lead you to recieve an answer to what it is if anything at all that they are uncomfortable with in you in any way.

Answer 7

Come out and ask , don't sugarcoat it at all. But be prepared for some bad answers too

Answer 8

dont look at them as your family and you wont suffer

instead, learn to love yourself to the point where you wont need anyone else

'cause anyone can let you down when you most need them

self-reliance is the key, my girl

Answer 9

I'm sorry to take 2 points for this, but I wanted to let you know that I have the same problem! I'm the black sheep, BAAAAAAAA!

Answer 10

mine dont like me either
the best thing is to ignor them they aint worth yur time or words