Yeah im in a relationship, the guy im with is really great! Very family orentated and goes to church. He Is recovering from a terrible past relationship. And anyway, to the point here. I care about him so much. But I feel like I am always the one who has to inniteate a conversation and things like that. Our relationship is not a commited one yet like I said he is still not ready. What I want to know is, is it possible im just a rebound girl and he is just taking advantage of me? Or does he really care about me and want to wait untill he is ready? Im so confused, and when I say things like I miss you he wont respond with an I miss you too. Am I wrong for getting ticked off at him?
2006-10-14 14:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Shari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are not wrong for getting mad...he must not be ready to move on..sit down with him and have a long talk and ask him where your relationship is going be firm and tell him that you need to know. if he dont resspond then i would try to move on. good luck!
2006-10-14 14:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you are allowed your emotions and feelings.
All I can say is to just take it easy and let him tell you these things. Men like to be in control and he knows where you stand but he has to get to the point where he is on the same ground as you are. If you two are having good time together let it be. If you were the rebound girl he would not spend time or energy with you.
Also actions speak louder than words so he may be expressing that he cares for you instead of saying it
2006-10-14 14:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are possible. You could be just the rebound girl. Or he could actually care about you a lot. I think you should tell him your feelings and ask him what's going on. That's the only way you'll really know. You can ask the yahoo people all you want, and sure you'll get answers, but we don't really know either of you or what he's thinking, so your best bet is to talk to him about it.
2006-10-14 14:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by preggyjessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL you can only wait & see how things go, just be friends for now, you will have to get the relationship going as if he is still recovering from a past relationship he will be very wary at the moment, if you like him just give him time.
2006-10-14 14:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK yeah you might just be the rebound girl because MOST guys have to have one. but sometimes rebound relationships actually make it somewhere. so just let time fix everything and if things don't' get better soon then dump but you never know what you got till you loose it.
2006-10-14 14:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by confussed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how soon he got out of this bad relationship , you can just be a rebound girl. Sit down and talk to him and ask him what he wants from you
2006-10-14 14:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you just said he was recovering from a realationship. He probably needs more time to recover. My advise is to so whatever you feel necessary to help him "get over the hump" so to speak.
2006-10-14 14:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not wrong and it is possible that u r a rebound girl do u know his ex do u get along maybe u shoul talk with it about him!! sorry for ue situation!!!
2006-10-14 14:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and see how he feels
2006-10-14 14:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the best thing to do.. ask him outright..
2006-10-14 14:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by belle du jour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋