ok here goes a long story summarized shorter...this guy ive been seeing for about 5 years on and off again...well he has a lot of medical problems and when i dont have my kids i always have to go to his house.. he never cleans and i do it for him or else it would never get done,,,but we never hardly go any where here it is only 7:49pm on a saturday.. i baked brownies for him and his kid.went with them to lookat halloween decorations and the tok them home because he was tired he never sleeps buti cant take this anymore..he dont want me to go out ..buut its saturday night and my kids are with there dad and im home alone..my sister wants me to go out and have a few drinks with her but im afraid it will make him mad..what would you do??
2006-10-14 14:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by mary c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life too short to be miserable. Look, I am in a controlled marriage. Its not fun. You can get out of this relationship and never look back. Dont worry about it makeing him mad. He could get off his arss and take you out. However since he wont, there is no rule that says you cant. He does not own you. Enjoy your life. Good luck. And if I had it to do all over again, I would have run like crazy at the first glimpse of control from him.
2006-10-14 14:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out have fun with your sister.
If you are in a relationship it should be 50-50 and it sounds like you are giving more than you are getting. Go out have fun and spend time with your sis
2006-10-14 21:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you have a life to and any guy that want to control and person that they care about mabey just is not worth it i mean he goes out why cant you he does things with out you why cant you. Live your life and not how somebody tells or wants you to live it. GO HAVE FUN YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!
2006-10-14 21:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your sister and have fun... He shouldn't get mad about you hanging out with your sister, its not like you are going out on a date with another guy. I would go out, have a couple drinks, have as much fun as you can, and try hard not to worry about him or what he thinks. He will be fine one way or another, and if he ain't willing to go out with you, then go with sis.
2006-10-14 21:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go out...you have to put up with him all the time. it would help to have a night with your sis.
2006-10-14 21:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by purplepeterblt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and move on!
2006-10-14 21:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live ur life!!!!
2006-10-14 21:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by daizy_man88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋