im alittle discouraged in this relationship (if i should even call it one). I've been dating this gut for about 3 months, in the beginning it was fun, we hungout a lot, went to lunch all that. He told me he would have a lot on his plate before all this, and told me it wouldnt be a problem. Now, i bearly see him and we never go out, with all the things he has going on( school, work, his business). i love and respect that he is so ambitous, but i feel he doesnt have time for me. I feel that if he really liked me he would make the time.
So last week i went to talk to him about it and he actually brought up first, he apoligized and said it would get better, and explained how he was a "complex" person. So, a week has gone by and no change. Should i move on? and find someone who has the time? Or should i give his a ultimatum? Is it so wrong to think that i deserve better?
2006-10-14 13:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by flo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really cared he would make time for you, however sometimes we can get caught up in our own lives and dont even realize we are hurting those who are most important to us.
He is being selfish, trust me, he can find ways to spend time with you.
2006-10-14 13:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dmsask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to think that u deserve better. u probably do. but the thing is, its bogus to break up wit this guy when he warned u that this was going to happen. u said u could handle it and that it wasn't going to be a problem.
2006-10-14 20:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Charnelle aka Nelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he really wanted to be with you, he would find the time. Don't waste your life waiting on other people to realize how great you are!
2006-10-14 20:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by dh1977 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psh! of course it's not wrong to think you deserve better, because you do! if he liked you enough, he wouldn't let his shiz get in his way. so just move on, because it doesn't sound he's gonna change anytime soon. good luck! :)
2006-10-14 20:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Give him the ultimatum.
2006-10-14 20:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say, but i know one thing i can say,
I POOTED!!
2006-10-14 20:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋