What do I do when this happens? he is a friend of mine, but I don't know if I should tell him that I like him. what do i do?
2006-10-14 13:45:45 · 12 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't know, I think you should ask him about it...what are the possibilities? I'd make it light, so that it won't put your friendship in jeopardy if he isn't into you that much. At least you have him for a friend..that in itself should be pretty special...
2006-10-14 13:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old you are and he is. I say this because men mature emotionally (well, most do!) as they get older. An older man, in my opinion would respect what you say and either tell you he feels the same, or tell you he doesn't while continuing a friendship. A younger man may use it to boost his ego and hurt you in the meantime. Hope this helps. Good luck. Chances are, if you have strong feelings for him than he probably does for you too. Usually feelings derive from a "connection" of some sort.
2006-10-14 20:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance and tell him. If he doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world. But you'll never know unless you do something about it.
2006-10-14 20:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know for sure that he doesn't like you?
If that is the case, then it will be kind of hard. I won't say impossible, but you'll have to do some clever wooing. And I can't help you with that. Sorry. = (
2006-10-14 20:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what type of friendship you guys have, if your really close don't just come out and say it, because he might just see you as a friend. However he might be feeling the same as you, and he might be nervous like you. I suggest you just flirt with him, he should figure out that you like him on his on if you do.
2006-10-14 20:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by I ♥ Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go for it. If he doesn't like you back, don't be upset. Not that he wont like you back. I mean, you'll never know untill you try. I told one of my best guy friends I like him and apparently, he likes me too so go for it.
2006-10-14 20:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him because if he doesn't like you in that way then you can move on.
2006-10-14 20:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Joe-slim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAME AS ME I TOLD THE GUY I LIKE THAT I LIKED HIM TOO ONE DAY AND I SAID JOSE I LIKE YOU THAN I JUST RAN AWAY THE NEXT DAY HE JUST STARTED AT ME WHICH WAS KIND OF ANNOYING SO.................... IF YOU REALLY WANT HIM TO KNOW TELL HIM IN A DAY THAT IS VERY SPCIAL FOR YOU LIKE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL
2006-10-14 20:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥J@zzy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him. it cant hurt anything, yes there are chances he wont like you but if hes not a jerk then he'll pretend nothing ever happend. who knows this guy mite like you to! good luck
2006-10-14 20:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Cloudyday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll live. Life is all about learning.
2006-10-14 20:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋