See when my boyfriend and i met his bestfriend was in prison. And we had been dating for about 4 months when his friend got out, now the whole time he was in there my bf was telling me all about how he couldnt wait for us to meet each other and we were gonna really like each other cuz we have a lot in common, and stuff like that. BUT everyone else was saying that this guy was bad news and he was locked up for beating his girlfriend, and that he sells drugs and has raped a girl and just all this horrible stuff!!! Well I told my bf about it and he said it was just rumours and none of it was true and he was set up and thats y he was in prison....
Well this guy has been out now for 3 mo. and he is an ***!!! he is very rude to me and he is ALWAYS with my boyfriend, he even sleeps on his couch most of the time and they go out partying ALL the time! it's driving me crazy because my guy was sooo sweet b4 his friend got outa prison! But ever since this dude is out he says he's got to
2006-10-14 13:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"protect him" so he doesnt do something stupid and get locked up again! And thats y he "has" to go to the club with him!
Isn't that kinda odd? theyve been friends since they were really little...but still!!! And this guy is a rude to MY friends and acts like he is jealous of me. I feel like he's trying to compete with me! Even my bf admitted his friend was jealous of me! i feel like this is ruining out relationship! what should i do?
2006-10-14 13:21:25 · update #1
and also do u think this sounds like his friend might b gay?? like their gay together or sumthing??? i mean i dunno...he trys to act like he's all hard and stuff! so whats the obsession with each other all about tho?
2006-10-14 13:23:12 · update #2
Simple solution. Ditch his **** because if his best friend went to jail for slapping his gf around and selling drugs, you can bet your pretty little **** your bf will end up doing the same. that is just a theory based on the info that you gave about his friend sleeping on the couch, being rude, and spending all of his time with your bf ( planning ways to slap women around lol). Guys are never going to just change the way they are around thier friends. We all have to continue being mr. bad **** around our friends. And if your bf really cared about you he would listen to what you have said and not make excuses for his friend.
Just remember everyone who has been in jail is innocent no matter who saw them do what they did. your bf's friend is a piece of sh*t and needs to grow up and accept some responsibility for his actions, and quit relying on everyone else to give excuses for him. Excuses are like arseholes everyone has one and they all stink. Hope this helps you get out of what could very well become a very abusive relationship. Best of luck
2006-10-14 13:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This friend sounds like bad news. Maybe this is just a side of your boyfriend you havent seen because his party buddy wasn't around. Let him know u dont like whats happening, only he can make the decision in the end.
2006-10-14 20:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dmsask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping on the couch? The 'jailbird' has got to go......
If you are uncomfortable being around him, just be sure to have someone else with you. Your BF should be more supportive of you and your feeling about this situation. Be careful....
2006-10-14 20:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF can't see how much of a jerk the friend is and if he is changing to be like him, break up anf find someone else. You don't need this junk.
2006-10-14 20:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thi s man is obviously a bad influence, but your bf lets him be one..i am usually not one for ultimatums, but you two need to come to some kind of compromise, and wahy doesnt this guy have a plave of his own...he should...tell you bf that you need more quality time together...without a thrid wheel.
2006-10-14 20:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud just forget abt him now , there might be something going on between them. u shud talk to ur bf abt this [whenever u get a chance]
2006-10-14 20:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by mistique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your bf. communicate your feelings about the situation.
2006-10-14 20:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to bid them both a fond farewell. It's sound like you have your head on straight - they don't - you deserve better - move on........... GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 20:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by pikeruss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so no problem be with your friend.
2006-10-14 20:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋