2006-10-14 13:16:36 · 17 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter what it is going to hurt so you cannot get around that. That is, if she is interested in you. So, I would just simply be very honest and tell her. Tell her before it gets out of hand. Just tell you there is something you need to talk to her about and let her know that it really bothers you that you might hurt her feelings. But then let her know you are only interested in her as a friend, nothing more and hope that you can be friends without there being anything wierd, etc. Then hold her and comfort her when you let her know. She may cry if she really likes you and if so then be there for her to cry too. Say your sorry but you wanted to be honest with her. Be sincere and caring. best wishes. She may get angry and if so, just let her say what she needs to say.
2006-10-14 13:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by purpleish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just aboiut to ask the same question. I say befriend her. That's what I did. I took the extra effort of being nice too. It doesn't hurt to make more friends. Just don't show enormous signs that you like her. Even tell her about a girl you might have a crush on.
2006-10-14 13:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a girl and I say the best way to tell her is first by getting with someone else THEN tell her Maybe you and I should just be friends! If that doesn't work then go with her and see how it works out! If it works out then let us all know, if not let her go!
2006-10-14 13:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by LauQueaischau T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly rejection will continually harm. If she basically desires to circulate on a date then evaluate it. according to probability it would paintings out greater constructive than predicted!!! After that basically permit her comprehend you have an interest in a extreme relationship. in the adventure that your no longer even prepared to circulate on one date than basically say. "you're cool and all, yet i do no longer think of us as something greater desirable than informal pals is a robust theory." She'll nevertheless sense rather rejected yet what else are you able to do solid success!
2016-12-26 19:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe that is the worst thing that i would ever want to hear..you should give her a chance...but this is a very good question...if she asks you out or asks you to hang out you should tell her the truth..now i no that this girl is going to be hurt..but i honestly think you should just say im sorri (her name) but im not really interested..and move on..i hope this helped ..good luck
2006-10-14 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the easiest way isnt the easiest way for. just be straight and up front that your not feeling her like shes feelin you.cuz you dont want to lead her on to stonger feelings either n really hurt her
2006-10-14 13:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Preschool diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u have to tell her something then u said to her that u like her but the feeling that u suppose to have for her is not there
2006-10-14 13:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much you like a certain other girl
even if you have to make one up.
2006-10-14 13:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt no matter what, but she will thank you for your honesty....its the same with us girls, we will find the best words to say it but, it will still hurt as its a blow on the ego...but hey, honesty is and will always be the best policy.....good luck...
2006-10-15 16:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with CAUTION get some and get out quick you never want to mess up a piece do you
2006-10-14 13:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋