Well Im talking to this guy who I really like but I just don't know. Today he asked me if I would like to see a movie tonight and I really don't know what to say. should I or should I not, we was only talking for almost 2 weeks now but I really don't know. He seems nice, I can get along talking with him but if I decide on going to the movies im afraid how to act around him.
2006-10-14 13:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm...is this why some women reject me even though I know they like me? Interesting.
I would say do it. But, always be prepared. Be prepared for the awkward silences. Prepare a list of topics to talk about if silence arises. If you dress nice, look good and act confidently, then any awkward silence will make HIM feel guilty. So, all the burden will be on him. Good luck.
2006-10-14 13:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point of going to the movies with someone is to find out whether or not you like them, really. I think you should say 'yes', if you think you like him and he gives you a good vibe. If he seems strange or weird or untrustworthy in any way (listen to your instincts and your gut reaction, they never lie) then obviously don't get too close, but I reckon seeing a movie with him would be great. Don't be afraid of how to act - he's as nervous as you. Just be yourself, be lighthearted, casual, fun and chatty, and don't do anything sexual unless you want to. Make sure someone you trust knows where you are and what time you should be back at, and don't rely on him to bring you home. And don't eat too much popcorn, it'll make you ill. :)
2006-10-14 20:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO!
The problem only arouses when you think about how to act around him. Don't act! Be yourself.
It's corny but it's the best thing.
Go enjoy the movie! Talk about it afterwards. Depending on whether there's much to talk about, go for coffee afterwards.
Let him suggest the movie btw. You'll have a better idea about whether to be more love-to-be or friend-to-be based on that. Unfortunately he's counting on you choosing the movie so he can read off you but ah, you have us to advise you! Let him choose.
Don't worry. Be yourself.
2006-10-14 20:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tarun Banerjee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to act around him? This isn't rocket science, simply be yourself. Why can't you decide on going to the movies with him? You said so yourself you guys are talking, why would there be a reason not to go out to the movies with him?
2006-10-14 20:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem confused w/ur feelings for this guy..take a step back n see what the problem is. Do u think of him as the friend type only or can you see him in the romantic sense? Mayb u need to take things slow, n see whether there is any chmistry or not.
2006-10-14 20:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie just go it has to happen sooner or later definently say yes!!!! just act normal around him dont be afraid to laugh and make him laugh if u dont know if u like him know u will if u go with him ok!!! good luck!!
2006-10-14 20:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the movies with him.It is your chance to get your relationship to grow and plus it would be fun.
2006-10-14 20:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go!
try this guy out and if you don't end up liking him
you don't have to go out with him again. just be
friends. it's not like your marrying him or anything.
2006-10-14 20:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. If you don't you might be missing out on something big!
2006-10-14 20:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it...think about it..it will bring you closer as friends..and just be yourself ..good luck
2006-10-14 20:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋