My boyfriend and I had a huge fight last week, and I'm pretty much thinking that we shouldn't be together. Here's what happened. He and I talked about him coming over to my place & we'd hang out.
I hadn't heard from him till later that night. I was mad that he was so late in calling me all day and he just apologized. Then told me to meet him at some bar. Well I wasn't interested in going since we said we'd go to my place and chill out... I also expect that we'd discuss our plans together, and make that descision together, since we normally would do that. He didn't care for my imput & kept telling me to meet him, not even offering to pick me up & I kept saying no, I'd like to do something else. This went on, I got annoyed & I hung up.
15 minutes later he called me from the bar, and his buddies were there too. He told me to come, that he'd be there. I was shocked and angry that he just picked up and went even though we hadn't agreed to this. I didnt go & he didnt come over
2006-10-14 12:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know the two of you, but do you think he might have maybe had a surprise waiting for you at the pub? If the two of you can not communicate and have no respect for one anothers feelings, Perhaps you should be apart. If you feel that there is any shred of hope though, I beg you to chalk this all up to miss-communication or a slight misunderstanding and let it go...
2006-10-14 12:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hadn't heard from him, why didn't you call him and see what was up? He apologized what else did you want him to do? At least he still wanted to see you by asking you to come to the bar. He could have not even called you at all or called you and not invited you. Flip the situation, if you were supposed to meet at his house and your girlfriends called you and told you to come to the bar to hang out for a little bit. Would you go? And maybe you were having a good time and you decided to call your man to invite him, and he got all mad and started acting like a baby. What would you think?
2006-10-14 19:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious you are one of the whining clingy ones.....I expect him to end it soon or at the very least start up with a more comliant and submissive girl on the side.
2006-10-14 19:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him have his way sometimes. Loosen up a bit, changing plans occassionally isn't such a big deal.
2006-10-14 19:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Steph :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS ARE DOGS AND THAT IS PLAIN AND SIMPLE, NOT ALL SO GUYS DON'T GET YOUR UNDIES IN A BUNDLE, BUT SOME GUYS REALLY DON'T CARE ABOUT A WOMEN'S FEELINGS ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE OUT WITH THEIR GUY FRIENDS THEY NEED TO BE COOL, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN
2006-10-14 19:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you need time for just yourselves? dont crowd him you'll only push him away
2006-10-14 19:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by loca420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋