when he met me he said that he hasnt been so happy and has been broken hearted from his marrage. he loves being with me and we spend a lot of time together. Although he is not ready for anything serious even when I understand that but he can't guarantee anything in the future. Should I leave him or should I move on?
2006-10-14 12:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're sleeping with him, yes move on.
If you're not sleeping with him, no you guys could stay friends. But always keep your options open b/c you guys aren't exclusive.
2006-10-14 12:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just got divorced a year ago after being separated for 3 years. I can tell you that I tried to have a relationship right after my separation and divorce, and unfortunately it doesn't work. He needs time to move on and clear his head. You honestly should move on because it just will not work down the road. Unless you're not looking for anything long term, then it doesn't matter. Remain friends with him, and look him up in about 2 years.
2006-10-14 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by chillwill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he's getting a divorce, which means he is still married. Since he is not ready to be serious with anyone, don't put all your energy into him since it is obvious he is not ready to put his energy into being in a serious relationship with you. Move on or give him an ultimatum. Tell him to either get the divorce or say it's been nice knowing you.
2006-10-14 19:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
run as fast as you can...he has already told you he does not want to be serious. its clear you do. sorry to have to tell you this but you are the rebound girl and nothing more.very seldom does the rebound girl get the guy. there are lots of men out there so go find a man that is ready to settle down. good luck to you...
2006-10-14 19:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy, and have fun with him, then why leave. Either way, there are no guarantees in any relationship.
2006-10-14 19:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋