have been hanging out with this guy for over 2 months now. He was married for 10 yrs. and has been single for a year and is now just recently officially divorced. I have been single for 2 years and was in an 8 year relationship before that. We get along real well and I like him. We go out and have our fun and go out with friends but at the end of the night we listen to soft music and just sleep together holding each other all night. He has never tried to kiss me or anything, and I know I'm considered attractive. His ex wife was not affectionate with him at all and just always wanted sex and nothing else, so I wonder if he is just getting from me what he didnt' get from his ex. He also doesn't call me constantly like my ex used to do, but my ex was very controlling and abusive (the reason we broke up)....so what is goin on??? so confused. Should I just ask him??
2006-10-14 12:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him straight and settle for the best.
2006-10-14 13:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As he just officialy got divorced all his past feelings for her will be fresh in his mind,it doesnt mean he still loves her, just that he needs a little time to heal..dont worry he will kiss you in time, but first he needs to know that you care about him enough to be his friend first because he may need to talk about his failed marriage with somebody he can trust , and that person is you :) just be patient with him, his heart is in the right place , all good things come to those who wait....i hope this advice can bring you what you want, best wishes Brian .
2006-10-14 19:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brian M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try moving it to the next level.. While you guys are holding each other, try kissing him, maybe he is unsure if that's what you want, and afraid to make that 1st move. He may be trying to take clues from you on what to do next. Both of you were in long relationships before and maybe alittle rusty when it comes to dating. If you like spending your free time with him and your cuddling up with each other, then I would say yes he likes you. Just try to ease a kiss in on him one night.
2006-10-14 19:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure
2006-10-14 19:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋