im going out with this guy and we've been datin for a while, its been a few days since he has called me, last time he didn't call me was a week ago and he hadn't called me for five weeks, then all of a sudden he call apologizing claiming he lost my number, i really think he is cheating on me. what should i do?
2006-10-14 12:04:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Five weeks? He probably is cheating, or isn't interested anymore. If the two of you have been dating for awhile, then how can he lose your number? I don't buy it...his excuses are very poor. Now you decide if you want to be with someone that will not call or contact you for five weeks, and then finally gives you such a lame excuse. Are you willing to do that? Only one that can make that decision is you. Good luck.
2006-10-14 12:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct, if your little voice in your head says something is wrong, chances are....it is. If you guys are really dating, there's no reason three days should go by without one of you calling the other. Sounds to me like he's got more than one fish on the line so to speak.
2006-10-14 19:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Just your average guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move one. Don't let yourself be disrespected like that. He probably is cheating on you, but even if he's not he ignored you for awhile, he's not worth it. Only go out with guys who can treat you right. Too many girls get caught up in relationships with guy who treat them bad and it hurts their self-esteem.
2006-10-14 19:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes not really in to you and his playing the field im a guy and it sounds like it everyone one and there mother has a cell phone it keeps numbers im sure your prolly in his list its not that hard to save a number id be wary of this relationship
2006-10-14 19:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by halicon2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and be straight up with the guy. if you know he respects you and think he isn't a player stick with him. but if he lost your number do you guys email? -if so he could've said something. so him cheating is a 50/50 possiblility.
good luck.
2006-10-14 19:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he did but...its up to u.....if u have a thought that he is cheating on u then..u dont trust him that well (then again thats 5 weeks) but anyways if u dont trust him all the way then maybe its better that u not date him.....
2006-10-14 19:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by countryman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he has been with another chic and now that it's over he wants to "reconnect" with you. People do it all the time.
Dump him behind and move on.
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2006-10-14 19:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not mean that he's cheating, it could mean that he's not interested. forget about him, don't stress youself about this guy
2006-10-14 19:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pixel1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's not worth it.
2006-10-14 19:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him directly,what's going on
2006-10-14 19:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋