I really like this one Junior, but I am a freshman, and he is gonna be 17, when I am gonna be 15, I feel like a little girl, and he can drive, and basically do whatever he wants, we were gonna go to the movies yesterday without my parents knowing he was gonna go, but none of my gurlz were gonna go, so I ended up not going, but he still went. I felt so bad, sad, angry, I wanted to sneek out, but I jus got a new cell phone yesterday!!!! What would you do? Please....no dumbass answers!!!!
2006-10-14 12:00:25 · 16 answers · asked by latin~ma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Naaahhh not too old, your fine!
think about it when hes almost 25 you'll be 23? its not that big a difference
2006-10-14 12:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you're 15, someone who is 2 years older is a lot older, but when you're 21 and he's 23 that 2 years will be no gap at all. My advice? Try and be as honest with everyone as you can. Don't stop seeing him but don't rush into a situation that you don't feel comfortable with. If he is mature and cares enough about you then he won't have a problem with how your parents feel or with you taking things slowly. Best bet is to tell your parents he is a good friend and then you can hang out without sneeking out. Go behind their backs and they will just fear the worst! Good luck!
2006-10-14 19:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Insighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't sneak out. Your parents will find out and then they will lose trust in you and you will have a difficult time ever convincing them to let you date. Plus that would be disrespecting your parents. You made the right decision once, so I hope you continue to do so. If this guy wants to be in a relationship with you, maybe he can come to your house and meet your parents. If you two hang out at your house and your parents start to trust the two of you together then they might let you go out with him. I know it sounds lame, but it might be your only choice. And if he doesn't respect you enough to take things slow and follow your parents rules, he's not the guy for you. And you don't mention, have you even asked your parents to see what they say or are you just assuming that they won't let you date him?
2006-10-14 19:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking the question you may already know the answer. he is not too old. but it seems like you are extremely good at making rash; sound, good decisions. if dating a boy who has a little more freedom than you due to the age difference and it is tempting to begin breaking rules you typically would not break in other situations you may want to reconsider dating him. if he is a true boyfriend he'll be there sometime in the futue and if he is not.there will be plenty more.
the most important thing here is your ability to keep making great decisions. it is a skill that will take you places you never dreamed throughout your life....keep up the good work.........
2006-10-14 19:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's too old. Wen I was a freshman i was into seniors at my skool so i dont think that it matters that much. And about doing stuff with him, i have the same problem. I'm dating a guy my parents dont approve of, and now they think im not going out with him. But I secretly go to the movies with him. I go on a double date, like with my friend and her bf, so if my parents ask, i just tell them im going with my friend, and i dont mention my bf or her bf. and if they find out, ill say we just happened to see them there. It's lieing, i no, but o well. Eventually, ull have to tell ur parents if u wanna go to his house or something. My plan is sorta short-term, haha.
2006-10-14 19:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not sneak around behind your parents' backs. They will find out and never trust you again. Introduce a boy to your parents before you go anywhere with him. He should show them that respect and so should you. You are too young to be with a boy who is old enough to drive.
2006-10-14 19:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to answer the first part.. No he is not too old for you..Secondly,,do not sneak out with him. If your parents won't let you go out with him then abide by their rules and maybe adk them if he can come over to your house and visit.
2006-10-14 19:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's to old for you, it's only two yrs. personally I think a group date is better at least until you get to know him better, then slowly introduce him to the family, that way you are not hiding anything and your parents will trust you because you are up front and honest.
2006-10-14 19:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Windy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he's too old for you to date, but if you feel you have to sneak around behind your parents' back in order to date him, then you still shouldn't.
2006-10-14 19:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, don't start sneaking around. Be cool, give yourself a little time and wait for things to be right.
2006-10-14 19:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by s. k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He aint to old for you its only a 2 year diffrence i know people that are 6-7 years diffrence that are dating. if ya like him go for it :)
2006-10-14 19:03:26 · answer #11 · answered by Erika H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋