married for 20 yyrs. wanna to try new things.
2006-10-14 12:00:06 · 7 answers · asked by jabanael f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you could get into: painting, sculpting, dancing, drawing, learning (like taking a class together), massage, etc. all of these things stimulate not only your relationship but your individual expression.
grow together.
2006-10-14 12:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by beesandhoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 10 yrs. and my husband just doesn't know how to be romantic, it wasn't installed in him while he was growing up. I find that the little things count more than the big. Romantic walks, make her a nice dinner, tell her sweet nothings every chance you get, if your in the car driving with her and you see a flower on the side of the road, stop the car and pick it for her, it's not much but it's the thought that counts. As she notices the little things you are doing, she will want to somehow make you happy too, if you know what I mean.
2006-10-14 19:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married forever. I learned recently that what I thought was romantic was the farthest thing from romantic, according to my wife. You should spend some time thinking about what SHE thinks is romantic. Believe it or not, to some women, you doing things around the house, without being asked is one of the most romantic things they could ask for. Getting the "honey do" list done was the thing for my wife. Now, I ask for more items to be put on the list! The rewards were the hottest ever! Take time, figure it out. Good luck
2006-10-14 19:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to give her the little things in life she lacks,,maybe a nice nite out planned all on your own,,a weekend away can be a nice thought..flowers for no reason work nice..leave little love notes to her,,and yes I agree do stuff around home to ease her day..Plan a day at the spa for her..start telling her just how much she really means to you..A nice walk after supper and really take time to listen to her...I have been with my hubby 12 yrs and he to had to learn that it's the little things I need from him not big pricey stuff...He now takes time for me each week and hey our sex life it great ...Good Luck,,,,You can do this and be happy and have a very happy wife too.....
2006-10-14 21:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by char bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said this before, find a nice heavy carhart jacket put it in the wash machine, when its the spin cycle, it will be severely unbalanced, see where I'm going?
2006-10-14 19:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by buckhalter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Couple travels, massage lessons!
2006-10-14 19:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gabrio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help with the housework. That will turn her on.
2006-10-14 20:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋