We talked for about two months our first date was dead but I still went on a second date. We had a twelve email conversation, aurgument or someting in between about sex. He thought I was trying to play with is head when I asked him to show a little affection such as a kiss and hug good night. That was what I asked for but he went and analyzed my whole email and It was takin out of content. Not to mention that before all of this HE said that he was sexually frustrated and wanted to have sex and I told him let start off slow and what ever happens happens. He swears I am trying to play mind games with him. So I told him I didn't have time for I man that is serious all the time, have fun too. Now I don't talk to him anymore, was I right to do so?
2006-10-14 11:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would cause in the long run he looks like someone that is seeking for a door mat like do what i want you to do first lets have sex then i will act a little more interested....nah i dont think so....
2006-10-14 11:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your personalities seem incompatible. Different personality types, in some cases, can complement each other, but I think you two were just different in ways that made you incompatible.As far as him thinking you were trying to play with his head when you were talking about affection, he may have had a situation where a woman used affection, and the showing of it, and expecting it back, as a weapon. It seems weird but can happen, especially in this age of ambiguous sex roles and a more permissive sexual environment. I personally wish I was the age I am now in the nineteen forties.
2006-10-14 18:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked me for a kiss and hug goodnight, the only thing I'd be analyzing would be how fast I could get my arms around you and how fast I could get my lips pressed to yours! No, you weren't wrong. You felt as if he wasn't the right kinda guy for you, so you said "goodbye".
2006-10-14 18:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of behaviour is not making you happy and its obviously a big part of his personality. you would end up in an argumentative unhappy relationship by the sounds of things. Quit while you are ahead.
2006-10-14 18:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu were rtight to do so. If you want to play "Round and Round the Rugged Rock", you can, but it gets frustrating.
2006-10-14 18:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him you don't want to see him anymore because it seems like he's just using you for sex.
2006-10-14 18:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by kx6593 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry....did you owe him something? Sounds like he was going to take you down Looney Street anyway.
2006-10-14 18:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Katy said it.
2006-10-14 18:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you werent happy with him then u werent happy. you had every right to leave
2006-10-14 18:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so, are you asking us to analysis this situation?
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2006-10-14 18:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋