Me and my man haven't been going out for that long but he's always occupied. If he's not working he's sleep if he's not sleep he's hanging w/ his boys and if he's free he's playing video games or something. Whenever I call we barley have a 15min conversation. I don't get to see him often cause of my school and his work schedule and I want to know what are some ways to make him pay me some attention ? Any ideas ?
2006-10-14 11:34:01 · 11 answers · asked by precious b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you just need to find something to occupy your time. Once he see's that you have other interests he may or may not come around.
2006-10-14 11:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by GlassHalfFull 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Schedule a date night when you both have at least 2 hours free and then do something interactive together that isn't seeing a movie, going to a club, etc. (like going for a walk, fishing, a quiet dinner, shooting baskets, going to a museum, etc.) Ask him questions about his day, his hobbies, his video games etc. and really listen. Have a life of your own via hobbies, work, volunteering, etc. Spend time with your friends and don't rely on him as your sole source of entertainment. If he won't cooperate, or just doesn't get it, get another man
2006-10-14 11:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by NanD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you got to make sure the fire is always lit.dress up sexy,wear his favorite perfume.do things that you did when you first met.if that doesnt work girl sit him down and let him know that you feel you need just a little more time with him...and it sounds childish but even grown folks do it..make him jealous..tell him your goin out with the girls and you dont know when you'll be home but you'll call him.and dont call till the next day..it sometimes has different effects but most of the time that catches their attention.good luck..
2006-10-14 11:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how I can make this any plainer.......If someone loves you and want to be with you they will DO anything to be with you.
You man is trying to tell you something. Either he's no longer interested in the relationship or he has found someone else.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news!!!
2006-10-14 11:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you are trying to get him to spend time with you, I would honestly be considering ending it. He should want to be with you not hanging with the boys or playing games all the time. Sure he can still do that but if he cared he'd be making time for you
2006-10-14 11:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes making yourself too accessable is the problem. Every man can just get used to you being there or making yourself available when he wants you there. Get out with your girls and wait for him to call you for once. Believe me-he will notice.
2006-10-14 11:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by lady K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 11:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. If he can't respect that, then maybe you need to re-evaluate the relationship.
2006-10-14 11:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by boilerman426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pay him any attention , don't call him and always be occupied
2006-10-14 17:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by tajwf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look into his eyes and tell him u love him and that gets them everytime i promise
2006-10-14 11:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋