My best friend Just broke up with her boy-friend. He flirted with me while they went out and i think i like like him. But another friend of ours went out with a guy she use to go out with and they aren't talkin' but i realy like her ex what do i do!!!???
2006-10-14 11:22:35 · 31 answers · asked by Shawnti D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should give her some time to see if he really didnt mean a lot to her..... and then talk to her about it
2006-10-14 11:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a decision, do you still want your best friend, or this guy, who may not have treated her well.
Guys, will come and go, in your life time, but best friends are there to stay. You could spend the rest of your life with your friend, and if you date this guy, you will hurt her, and if he flirted with you, while he was dating her. You can bet, he will be flirting with other girls, while he dates you.
Is this really the guy you want to go out with? He seems like a creep, to me, and if you date him, against your Best Friend, that will say a lot about you too.
Don't do it.
2006-10-14 11:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing..going out with the boyfriend would be the worst thing you could do..
for one would you like your friends dating your x-boyfriend... can you imagine how she will feel...also it is natuaral not to like the new girl you x is seeing so immediatly she will have those feelings
Its also a case of do you actually want your friends left overs!!
Laslty there are so many other guys out there why is it neccessary becuase the boy flirted with you to go with him..,.you friend may say its ok but deep down it will hurt her..
its true
dont be mean find another guy
2006-10-14 11:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people have advised, don't sacrifice a friendship for a guy. What you can do is this; talk to your friend and ask her if she would be okay with you dating one of her exes, or if she felt that would strain you guys' relationship as friends. Good luck.
2006-10-14 11:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like u still? if he does, i'd say ask ur friend what she would do if u started dating him? (in an informal way), and if she's ok with it, she's lying but if she said that she won't be ok with it, then u need to decide if it's worth loosing ur friend for a guy, who is more important to u? if she says she'll be ok with it, try to read her expression when she answers, to know how much the thought bothers her, but like i said, if u really like the guy and u think it's worth it, i say go for it. she might understand and forgive u someday. But don't expect her to be ok with it right away.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 11:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by curiousgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all,make sure you talk to your friend and let her know what your feeling,as well as find out if she is thru with him for good.You dont want to be a homewrecker ,and you sure dont want to get caught in the middle .She will admire you for being honest and not going behind her back.
2006-10-14 11:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide whats more important. Your friendship, or some guy.
Pick the friend. Guys are a dime a dozen. Friendship lasts forever.
2006-10-14 11:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mel ~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a mans world we have a secret pact "NEVER DATE YOUR BEST FRIENDS EX!" no matter how hot they are its just not done, in a woman's world I don't know if this is how it goes but I, if i were you stay away and keep your friend, if he only want you for sex and then dumps you, you lost a friend for one instant of fun
2006-10-14 11:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since he was with your friend first why would you want her left overs? Also there must be a reason he is her ex so i suggest you do not do it and plus i think she would be hurt to think that you would do that to her.
2006-10-14 11:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your best friend and you respect the friendship, you will maintain certain boundries. It's not worth pursuing this guy and losing a good friend.
2006-10-14 11:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Prissy2t4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing-there is an unspoken rule that any love intrests-past or present or future-are hands off if your friend was, were, are or thinking of getting involved. Think of how you would feel?
2006-10-14 11:25:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋