After reading On Grief and Grieving, by that Ross lady who is an expert on death, I realized that part of grieving the death of my boyfriend is missing having sex with him. He was stabbed seven times last year by a guy he was arguing with. Tho it's been a year I miss him so much. I miss everything about him, his hugs and kisses and his voice. I even miss his sex.
I guess my question is even tho I know this is normal, how can I just feel better.
2006-10-14 11:05:29 · 10 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't help he was my first sexual partner either. He was 27, I was 18
2006-10-14 11:12:47 · update #1
Personally I don't think you really forget about someone who passed away. There is always going to be a time when you stop and think about that person. Try to occupy your time as much as you can. Just don't over do it. If you keep busy all the time you can breakdown. One day a time and then eventually enough days go by and you start to feel better.
2006-10-14 11:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by jessica b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's make two of us. The good thing is you had a wonderful guy to reminisce about I had a two timing hind legs but he was a great lover none the less.
It's normal to feel that way whenever someone is gone from our lives whether it's by death or a break up.
2006-10-14 11:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get into something that might help you froget the sex or find someone who can give you what he did. I can understand your situation and realize how hard it is not to have the kind of loving he gave you. But just remember that there are other guys who can love you and take care of your needs for you. Good luck to you and may you find great and happy sex...
2006-10-14 11:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry. I don't know how it is to have lost a boyfriend so I can only suggest that maybe time will heal you. Try not to spend too much time alone, surround yourself with family and friends and hopefully they will help you to mend your broken heart. May god bless you and help you to get through this trying time in your life!!!!
2006-10-14 11:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by yomama h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww.. im so sorry... you just have to continue how you have been going each day will slowly get better and better.
but realise he will always be around you..just keep up being strong, and remeber him for all of the things he did.
2006-10-14 11:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help you but there's no cure for grief. Good luck.
2006-10-14 11:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make it better. The only thing that will work is TIME. Good luck my friend.
2006-10-14 11:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just IM ill help you ok
2006-10-14 11:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is terrible im sorry about ur loss. fortuantely ive never been thru this and i hope i dont...thats why i dont know wat advice to give ..hope u feel better
2006-10-14 11:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with me
2006-10-14 11:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋