Yesterday i was very pissed off because my boyfriend didn't tell me where he was going to be and he knows that we always meet.. so he has me on a wild goose chase.. and then i found out that he bought this girl lunch and didn't wait for me.. and was just being a complete jerk.. i don't understand him.. what's his problem.. after me like flipping out on him... he's the one who acted all hurt and things when i was the one sad and crying... and telling his friends that his life sucks.. when i told them what happened they were like he wasn't supposed to be like that... what is wrong with him?
2006-10-14 11:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by fersitf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, please don't fall in the reverse psychology trap. Your boyfriend sounds very immature and disrespectful to you. Don't take that kind of treatment from him. He doesn't deserve you. He should have been buying you lunch instead of someone else, and even if he did buy someone else lunch, he should have still bought you lunch.
Let him act hurt. He really isn't, it's you who has been hurt. Maybe if you don't respond to his so-called "hurt" reactions, he will begin to appreciate you for the young lady you are. Drop him and move on with your life and then one day you'll be able to look back on this relationship and see him for the idiot he really was. I wish you the best.
2006-10-14 11:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not own him. If you get all possesive it will hurt him and make him feel awkward around him. you dont have to keep tabs on each other all of the time. Why make a big deal of such a small thing? I think he feels trapped by you and doesnt know what he has done wrong that is why he is upset. Why did you flip? Wild goose chase? Why chase him? If he want you he will chase YOU!
2006-10-14 11:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by angeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should piss on your bf he acting a fool! No woman should allow a loser like that make you cry! He just wants pity & you should give it to him with a foot up where the sunshine doesn't a shine!
2006-10-14 11:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by johnnybgoodpromise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guys do turn it all around sometimes on us. It seems as if he is not ready for one girlfriend, so may be he wants his freedom, so let him go, and you find someone who only wants you! So find a friend who you are with for a while, so you can get to know him!
2006-10-14 11:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he seriously has emotional issues or he is just playing with your mind and acting like that to try and gain something out of it. My room mate does weird stuff like that....I agree with the person who answered above me: NEXT!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 11:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sounds like he just isn't that into you. NEXT!!!
But seriously, have a talk with him when you are both calm and listen to what he says. But he needs to listen to you also!!
2006-10-14 11:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋