I am 46 and divorced due to unfaithful wife and curious ?
2006-10-14 10:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be such a nice guy. That doesn't mean be a jerk, but be strong enough that the woman will respect you and want you enough not to pull that stuff. If your divorce was recent, she hit her 40's and got bored, or confused, or wanted more than you (and your easy, nice life) were giving her. A woman never likes complacency, you've got to be about the business of keeping your relationship fresh 24/7 to keep them in tune.
2006-10-14 11:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be attentive to her needs. Tell her how you feel about her.. tell her often that you love her and that she is beautiful.
Don't take her for granted, don't put things ahead of her (ball games, golfing with your buddies, work...TV...etc)
Do little things on a daily biases to make her life easier. Take the garbage out, do the dishes, vacuum, clean the bathroom including the toilet from time to time WITHOUT being asked.
When you are intimate.. look at her with love and lust in your eyes and make love to her like a starving man (not groping and pawing) but firm touches and soft touches, see her...enjoy her beauty, tell her she's sexy (naked) and let her know you love and need her.
And most of all, the way you were to catch her.. STAY that way even 30 years later. (Remember...not even you are perfect)
Good luck!
P.S. If you ex wife told you things you were doing that bothered her.. and you did not listen or didn't think her complaints were important you...ended up divorced...don't bring that same behavior into your next relationship. Learn from your divorce.
Oh and one other very important thing (that I believe is true for both sexes) It is quite possible that the other man said all the things your wife wanted to hear.. but from you. He may have made her feel special, and sexy.
Not all women are bad...but we all like to be told by our mates that we are beautiful and sexy. Maybe she missed being told that.
2006-10-14 11:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are going after the wrong type of woman. Most woman love to be loved.
2006-10-14 11:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by pat1268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. One of these days you'll find a woman who will love and accept you just as you are and have the same views on cheating as you do. She's out there, you just haven't met her yet.
2006-10-14 11:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man not all women are like that, she was probably just a bad seed there's a lot of them these days. But I wouldn't know much about that just yet, sorry good luck though!!!
2006-10-14 10:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a nice woman ..... sorry about your divorce .. i am 40 and going thru a divroce right now it sucks
2006-10-14 11:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by bayoubelle98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋