i really fancy this guy but he seems oblivious to my feelings, even though i have tried to make it quite obvious(without actually saying i like him)
2006-10-14 10:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wear revealing clothes then he will notice you then kiss him then have sex with him then he will know that you like him.
2006-10-14 11:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you like him, fantastic.
Oblivious, really, can you read his mind, guys are sooo good at showing a poker face, we get trained from an early age.....do you think he would show it if he picked up your signals, I'm not sure he would.
Also sounds like you're frustrated with him for not making a move, have you acted consistently with him or do you blow hot and cold not wanting to look too keen. Either way it could make him question you if you are not acting consistently and back away a little to try and understand you a little more before making his move.
You have "tried" to make it obvious. Have you ever tried to open a door or tried to light a match, pretty difficult to try to do these things, much easier to just do them. Would suggest trying to get him to like you is similarly going to be more difficult than jus asking him. Might be best to be direct.
Sounds that you are trying to get him to ask you out, sounds like a lot of hard work to me. Why don't you either just spend time with him or ask him directly.
2006-10-14 15:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel the same and be too shy to say to you. Either that or he isn't very observant (we don't really tend to pick up on these "signals" women talk about). Guys need some sort of clear and obvious sign that you like him. Either that or make sure to laugh at his jokes and look interested when he speaks. He might then "realise" that he likes you and you won't have to do any more yourself; just let him do the talkin'.
2006-10-14 10:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rich 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
XenonAudi says "if you don't know then don't do it" and i agree. there's no such thing as "making it obvious" you just got to say it and if he rejects you that's life, just don't get too emotional if he does, you will always wonder what if and I don't believe in that unless there's a fool proof plan that lets me. there's one way and one way only say " are you with any one at the moment coz I'd be really interested in getting to know you better" or words to that effect. Whats the worst that can happen, and whats the worst that he'd say at least if he does then you'd never have to give him a moments thought ever again and you could try elsewhere.
2006-10-14 11:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you made a point of trying to spend time with him one on one?
most guys are quite oblivious if you hang out with them in groups, because other friends are very distracting. if you get with him alone, just hanging out or whatever, he will pay way more attention to you, and if dropping obvious hints doesn't work...
then there are a few possible reasons for this:
-he picks up on what your trying to say, but he doesn't know how to respond, so he is just playing them off. maybe he doesn't want to respond because he is either afraid of rejecting you, or is shy.
-he really doesn't get it, or doesn't notice this.
if her really doesn't notice any signals your sending but you think he would be interested, tell him straight. whether its a note or out loud to his face, you may actually have to tell him how you feel directly. that's the only way you will be able to move on.
2006-10-14 11:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by little 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings seem oblivious to him the best thing to do is just tell him. Just tell him how you feel and see what he says. If anything he may say he feels the same way or better off friends. The point is at least you were honest with yourself. Good luck!
2006-10-14 10:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a date - make it a special one and very original and turn up having really made an effort with your appearance (clothing etc.) and on planning the date. When greeting him make sure you convey in your greeting to him that you like him a lot (e.g. if usually you just say hi, why not kiss him on the cheek...)
and keep flirting with him...
2006-10-14 10:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact and talking about the things he likes. Also if a girl laughs at something you didnt really intend to be funny us guys no we're in there.
However if he's that thick that he doesnt notice your feelings maybe your best finding someone else.
2006-10-14 11:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, what have you tried? obviously what you are doing isn't working as well as you had hoped right? Your next best thing to do is drop him a note that says how you really feel. You don't actually have to tell him face to face, but you'll get your feelings out there. and if he rejects that, he isn't good enough for you
2006-10-14 10:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a tight top and a short skirt. If he gets a hard-on, you've got gis attention, though he may be too embarrassed to admit it.
2006-10-14 10:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Joker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him alone in a private place and kiss him or ask him out. You could just tell him straight up.
2006-10-14 10:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋