We went together the summer of 2001, but since we didn't see each other much, we decided to break up. Now I want her back. I want to be with her because I love her and I want to start a family with her. I am a shy person which makes it pretty hard for me to talk to her. I've only told my favorite two cousins and another friend. I told her how I felt over the internet, but I thought that was rude and after that she hasn't responded to any of my messages. How can I tell her in person without fear being publically embrassed?
2006-10-14 10:47:13 · 12 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want to start a family with her? Wow, I think you're moving a little too fast. Maybe she's starting to feel a little pressure and intimidated. Just give her a little breathing room okay? I'm sure she'll come around if she feels the same way. Just remember to not get too caught up...at the age you are, you're both still exploring and "finding" yourselves. Give it time, and if things are meant to be, then they will work out for the best.
2006-10-14 10:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girls parents must be out of their minds to let a 10th grader even try to talk to their CHILD in the 5th grade! You are acting like a pedophile! You are saying you want to start a family with a CHILD. That's not acceptable!! You should be concentrating on getting your education not chasing behind little girls!! Leave that baby alone and let her grow up then you won't be so hot after her because she'll be too old for you. You're messed up young man. Get help.
2006-10-14 11:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some time. i think at 10th grade, one has to really think over whether they really know what love is.
but that is besides the point...
the only person that can help you being shy is.. well, you. you have to learn to be comfortable with yourself, and being able to show your true self to others. if you want to spend the rest of your life with this girl, then at least let her get used to you so you can have a reliable response.
how does she react toward you? does she seem interested? if you don't talk to her as much, you won't truly be able to answer these questions because she doesn't know you as well. if this is the case, try not to push your feelings on her too quickly. anyway, hope everything works out for you, and good luck with her!
2006-10-14 10:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this girl still the girl of your dreams? If she hasn't responded to any of your messages and there's 2 reasons why she hasn't done that: either too busy or not interested. And you have no reason to be embarrassed. Tell her when no ones around or talk to her by yourself. Don't do it around people, because that would be embarrassing if she turns you down in front of people, hopefully I could help you with that.
2006-10-14 10:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in The 8th grade and I'm shy to but when i broke up with my girlfriend and i wanted to go back out with her i had to tell her i felt and i was scared but i cared for her to much so i just went up to her and we took a walk i told her every thing i had to tell her and now we are back together.
2006-10-14 10:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think u should flirt with her so that she knows ure interested and perhaps ask her out. This will let her know what direction ure going in without being so blunt. And wen its the right time, just tell her. She may have sum feelings for u too.
2006-10-14 10:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are jumping the gun a bit. You are only a sophmore in high school, and you want a family? go out, enjoy your youth, get wild, date a bunch of women before you settle down. have fun while you can, because once you have a family, you won't have time to do all the fun things that you can do while you're single.good luck!
2006-10-14 10:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is much too young to be involved with you. Let alone even think about starting a family with her. In fact, you're both too young for anything right now. She probably realizes that. Leave her alone before you create a problem that you're unable to fix!
2006-10-14 10:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww your story is sweet....
well being shy is hard...im super shy too it's pretty much impossible for me to talk to the person i like without saying something foolish or stupid....
i guess you just go for it....like practice what you are gonna tell her in a mirror or somehting even if it seems stupid or dumb it works a little and helps you....then just think positive stuff when you talk to her...don't think you are gonna blow it.
2006-10-14 10:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by SHE'S A DANCING QUEEN ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a family...damn ur not even outta HS. she prolly doesnt want u..its been a long time. haha dude get some balls...if u somehow have contactr with her say i want to get back..if she say no...so what go find another girl...there are tons!///sides ur way too young to say shes the one i want forever!
2006-10-14 10:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by akihabro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋