I have had a crush on this guy for a long time and he knows it and he likes me too. But he hasnt asked me out. should i ask him out or is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy?! What should i do?
2006-10-14 10:43:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hasn't asked you out yet, he just maybe to shy. These days anyone can ask anyone else out. It's not a big deal. If you both want to get together, someone has to make the first move.
And it looks like it has to be you. Just make it casual, nothing to serious. Tell him theres a movie or something else you want to see, and would he like to go with you to see it.
If he says yes, then you are on your way, if he says no, then, you might just be wrong about his feelings for you.
But at least you will know where you stand, and can move on. Crushes come and go, and aren't anything serious. We all get them, some work, some don't.
So ask and see what happens.
2006-10-14 10:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda need a little bit more info about how he acts around you. If a guy knows a girl likes him, he'll usually say hi, cos he's flattered, and secretly likes you liking him. But that's not enough to know if he likes you MORE than that. So if it's only ever "hi", chances are he likes you as a friend, but if he starts talking to you about more stuff, or what music you're into, or teasing you (seriously I mean that), chances are he likes you more. Good luck!
2016-05-22 02:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should ask him out. There's nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. Since he knows that you like him and the feeling is mutual with him as well, what do you have to lose? It may be that he is too shy to ask you out. You'll never know if you don't try it. He may be waiting on you to ask him out while you're waiting on him to ask you out. I say go for it.
2006-10-14 10:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad for a girl to ask out a guy my friends have done it alot now here is a question for you if you guys have been friends for along time like say for 2 years maybe he likes you but he jus thinks u are more a friend then a gf because that has happened to me and i know it hurts but you will get over it sometime. so ask your self that. and when you come up with an answer. if u are goin to ask him out or wait longer. but remember guys are scared too to ask girls out trust me i know.
2006-10-14 10:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety we are in the 21st Century. Ladies ask Men out all the time. Maybe you could invite him to go and have a coffee or tea with you, something where you two can talk in comfort. Maybe invite a couple of friends with, so that both of you will feel comfortable.
2006-10-14 10:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by bdancer43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong for a girl to ask a guy out so u should ask him out but if u want him to ask you out ask him to go to the movies or something like a date maybe he will ask u then.
2006-10-14 10:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by cherash92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just shy, don't ask him it'll make you sound like your desperate or something. Don't give him that pleasure, just forget about him a little while and if he still doesn't ask you out then maybe he doesn't really like you like you think. Well good luck and I hope you make the right choice!
2006-10-14 10:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask him out...if you don't want to then try to flirt more and make it more obvious that you like him. Some times we think that we are so obvious and that he knows that we like him, but not all boys are that smart. If you want to ask him out but don't know if it is weird...it's totally fine! Just don't think about it that much, and have fun!!!
hope that helps :)
2006-10-14 10:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you now he is attracted to you ,then get off the fence and tell/show him.Dont be afraid of rejection either ,or you will waste more of your time being lonely,instead of enjoying your new found relationship.Have fun and live your life to the fullest!
2006-10-14 10:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.... i think u should start taking the first step if u think the guy is worth it.
Because there alot of guys that are scare to ask a girl out
2006-10-14 10:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by No_ResPect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋