do you believe in a relationship without trust?

Question

when u cant talk to any one

Answer 1

the basis for all relationships -- for society, civilisation and the very continuing existence of our species on this planet is TRUST.

Mankind can be abusive and deadly. With that potential, what keeps us from being savage all the time? What is it that makes us civilised? No one knows. Hobbes maybe came up with the best answer: "because the alternative is unthinkable".

So no one knows WHY we trust other people to be kind, caring and helpful... but the fact is MOST people like other people. They empathise and sympathise and look out for each other directly or indirectly (by voting or giving to charity etc).

Yahoo! Answers is a prime example of people helping each other for free. Weird behaviour -- but behaviour that makes us human and different from other creatures.

There are statistically very few people out there who are anti-social, criminals, bullies, misfits, and mentally ill.

They are terrifying because they attack this essential trust basis.

PLEASE do not become afraid of the many because of the few.

You CAN TALK TO PEOPLE -- and they will listen and give you respect. You ARE NOT ALONE.

What SEEMS to complicate things is that you can have a poor relationship with a family member, but still trust them to stand by you, to stand up for you or to take your side and be supportive etc. Likewise you can have a relationship with someone, a love relationship, for example, where you do not trust them to be faithful to you, but that you trust them to love you and support you in other ways.

If you cannot accept infidelity, if you want a one-woman man or a one man woman (etc), then your challenge is to move on romantically and try to keep the ex as a friend... make things right by knowing where the trust is.

Hope this helps!

Answer 2

A Relationship without trust is not a relationship.

Answer 3

In order to have a relationship there has to be trust, and you have to have that trust established.

The question should be why would you want a relationship with someone you feel that you can't trust ?

Answer 4

If there is no trust there is no relationship. You have to trust and respect each other to make it work.Unless you want just a sex relationship and that not good either

Answer 5

no i sure dont 2 people who are commited 2together shall have trust and there is some body out here that u can talk to and trust i belive that if u have a partner u should be able to talk and trust that person no matter what is going on.

Answer 6

trust, communication, and love, is what makes a relationship. Without it, I dont think you have it. So no, without trust there is NO relationship.

Answer 7

A relationship is built on trust. . .without it, is like a house without a foundation, it's just a matter of time before it falls apart.

Answer 8

No! A good relationship should increase the amount of love in your life, not isolate you from it. The only people who smother their partners like that are very insecure losers who believe if their BF/GF talks to any other person, they will leave them for anyone else...fear is never attractive, and that's what these types are full of.

Answer 9

No, I feel if the person don't and won't trust you than they have issues, Maybe control issues if you can't talk to anyone. Sounds like this person has insecurities or maybe is doing something wrong themself. the accuser is most likely doing what is being accused. Good Luck

Answer 10

i don't comprehend why there nevertheless jointly yet a relationship isn't a relationship devoid of have confidence. How can the two of them be particularly satisfied whilst they could conceal issues or are suspicious of another