I like this girl , but i suck at flrting, when she frlts with me i really suck at flrting back. By the way she knows I like her, just broke up with her boyfriend, is emo, and seems to complet me. But i really need help flrting. She opens up to me about so many thing and i really suck at frlting back, i am so confused, she asked me if i wanted to kick it with her and her friends, but i don't want to come on as too lonley. PLEASE I REALLY LIKE HER, BUT REALLY SUCK AT FRLITING.
2006-10-14 10:18:22 · 14 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really don't know what to do, when i first met her , she keep on asking do i play any insterments , I said i didn't, she trys to flirt with me but, i am so bad at it.
2006-10-14 10:38:41 · update #1
Just relax. That's the first step. This girl probably gives you tremors inside, and sometimes you can show it. But during a flirt off is not that time. Try to keep your cool. First, forget all of your inhibitions. Ever seen Office Space? Basically, I'm saying lose all fear that something bad will happen. Think that it'll be better and has to be done. And right before you do it, just imagine yourself holding her in your arms, or something like that. Then approach her. If you catch her off guard, you have a better chance of getting her nervous and making you look better. Just tell her things like, you look great today. Go ahead and hang with her friends, and say that you would'nt rather be anywhere else, but don't say, well I suck and have no friends. DON'T! As it so happens, she'd probably find it cute if you told her that you were nervous and can't flirt well. She'll understand. After all, she did leave her boyfriend for you. Just jump in and flirt, man. You can do it. Good luck. Go n get her!
2006-10-14 10:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1 calm down girls like Joe cool not Mr.Nervous. 2 stop worrying what about flirting it's not your thing. But what is? Find that and your golden. 3 She likes you or she would'nt confide in you.
2006-10-14 17:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Viakin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man the think is not the FLIRTING man it is just the way you handle things. You dont have to talk to her. Just acct infront of her like a gentleman and she will notis you. Just try this it is easy and normal.
2006-10-14 17:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jamain_Johnson 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG OMG makes you sound like a 12 yeal old girl. Act like a guy.
Stop panicing and be yourself. If you try too hard you'll have to keep doing it all your life. If she likes you already then you sould be fine.
2006-10-14 17:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hang out with her and her friends. It's better than coming off as aloof. It's a good way to get to know her without the pressure of the one on one. good luck
2006-10-14 17:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most females control the conversations in a relationship. just listen to her, give no advise, if she asked you out, go!!!. dont worry about flirting. just admire her thats what she wants. remember she just ended a relationship. shes shopping.
2006-10-14 17:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by used1goods 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is your behavior of like somebody. No help , must be in your blood or you just boring men.
2006-10-14 17:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its FLIRTING and stop worrying so much just be urself!!dont try to impress her cause if she doesnt like u for who u are (ur non flirting self) then it wont work out anyways!!
2006-10-14 17:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drop the OMG OMG thing and you should do just fine.
2006-10-14 17:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can help you. I am a pro at this. Email me. cotycassell777@yahoo.com. No charge.
2006-10-14 17:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Divine O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋