i just started a relationship with my best guy friend but i can't help the feeling that he questions why i like him so much. he's even asked me to rate him on attractiveness numerous times. i keep telling him that i care more for his personality than his looks but he doesn't seem to get it. while i think physical attraction is key to a good relationship, i just wish it wasn't so important to him. my love for him isn't based on appearance but it's so hard to get him to see that. idk what to do to show him because it's obvious that it's not getting through. what should i do?
2006-10-14 10:14:32 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's always asking me if a really cute guy with a great personality came along, would i leave him? it's getting to the point where it's getting on my nerves.
2006-10-14 10:23:06 · update #1
You sould be a little patient with him. Even though his attactivenes is not important to you, it seems like it is important to him. He probably feels like you're blowing off the matters without giving them proper attention. Some people really do need alot of verbal reassurance. Try again couple of times, and if it still bugs you - maybe he's not your type after all. You don't want to be hearing this every day for the rest of your life if it bugs you.
2006-10-14 10:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the inscure person you chose and dealing with it is unfortunately, now your load.
I guess you can try to make barfing motions at pictures of Brad Pitt... That proves to him that you're after an alternate attractiveness. Works for me. I'm actually serious.
2006-10-14 17:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by smartchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys make a hobby of personal grooming
just like some guys build model airplanes
you either accept his harmless obsession or you set him on the path to his next romance.
Q. he's your best guy friend and you didn't foresee the problem?
A. obviously, he thinks you have "fallen for his charms".
In my mind it's just friends with benefits.
2006-10-14 17:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you were attracted enough to start the relationship and are arttracted enough to continue with the relationship and tell him that he only gets more attractive as you get to know each and every aspect of his personaility and tell him that you love to look in his eyes and love to see his smile tell him that he is the most attractive main man in ur life
2006-10-14 17:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my brother dose that to his girlfriend alot and it gets on my nerves same as his girlfriend i can tell she don't like it. i just told him to stop or shes going to brake up with you and he stoped. so just tell him to stop if you really love me.
2006-10-14 17:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are involve with a insecure person. be careful it could exhaust you. mentally. not a good relationship.
2006-10-14 17:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by used1goods 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write him a litter to tell you how you fell!
2006-10-14 17:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by jamale f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋