I like this girl , but she's emo and might really need some help. I like being around her, but every time I talk to her , she has anouther problem. Are the rules for flriting different then normal?
2006-10-14 09:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She keeps on telling me her promblems, and since she has been flriting with me anyway i told her i like her( normaly i wouldn't but she's seemed to be trying so hard to flrit with me) and after that she still feels like telling me all of her promblems. I really need tips on how to flrit ( i'm really bad at it.)
2006-10-14 09:56:21 · update #1
I'm not sure if you really like this girl or not. If you really do, then flirt with her the same as you would anyone else. All people at some point are going to have some problems. Maybe right now it seems to you that all she has is problems, but that is probably because you have shown her that you care and that you will listen to her. She probably just feels comfortable talking to you. Take that as a compliment. If she feels that she can trust you, it will be that much easier to make the transition to the next level.
2006-10-14 09:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by jen2192000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, there are many who will disagree with what I'm about to post, but I believe there are people who are complainers. That is their nature. I don't believe that it is exclusive to women, since I know quite a few men that never stop whining.
I like hot coffee with a little bit of cream in it, not sand.
2006-10-14 16:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you to keep firmly in mind where you want the relationship to be going, and keep nudging it in that direction.
I suggest you listen to her problems a few times then one day pretend to blow up about "how come that's all you two ever talk about?"
while you're still pretending tell her you want to take her out and kiss and cuddle and do all the normal things.
at least that will get her thinking about you.
if she gets angry you have to decide on the spot to use the emotion to get closer to her or just totally relax and let her burn it off.
good luck!
2006-10-14 16:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude its the same either way with emos. we just have alot of problems thats all. just because we slit our writs doesnt mean anything, it just means that we get really depressed cuz some1, any1, wont listen. keep listening to her problems and just get close. ask her out when u feel its right, ok?
2006-10-16 20:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by punk_kikyo_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats an emo?
A kinda prehistoric person or something?
2006-10-14 16:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to split your wrist and talk with blood on your lips
2006-10-14 16:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
wow.
2006-10-14 16:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋