i like this guy, but we r just friends. how can i get him to like me as more than just a friend?
2006-10-14 09:29:15 · 25 answers · asked by goldfshhh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. If he pursues other women, then either move on, or remain friends. To be honest with you, I have always thought it poor form to be visiting someone's love interest on your own. But if he's free,
2. some times it takes time for a good relationship to evolve. The more he knows you, and if it's compatible with what his needs are, he may fall for you.
3. But the main point is: It either will be or won't. You can't force chemistry and love. That's why there are so many songs written about unrequited love, and it's a drag.
4. I don't know your age, but if in high school, don't worry about it, because those relationships usually don't follow you into the future. You mature and your intellectual and romantic interests do too. Get the best grades, so you can get into a good university. For now, have fun with friends in group activities.
Good Luck and Warm Regards!
2006-10-14 09:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but spice it up a bit. Dress and act sexy around him, flirt with him. If he likes you as more than a friend, he'll start by telling you how hot you are. When that happens, it's time to make your move and start getting a little more personal. With men, it generally starts with physcial attraction. Since you are already friends, that chemistry is probably the only thing missing if he doesn't like you already and just not telling you.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 09:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to talk! Just go up to this guy and tell him how you feel. Easy as that. Remember a friend can tell you anything, a friend always listens. Good luck.
2006-10-14 09:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him like you, for it too be true he has to feel the same way about you, just talk to him about being more than friends, explain to him that you like him more than friends and would like to try dating.
2006-10-14 09:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is this game that i play with my friends its were you play rock,paper,sissors and who ever loses has to ask a boy out BUT make sure who ever ur doing it with has to win and has to pick that guy and ask him if he will go out with u and if he says no just so ok good i lost a game i dont really like u so u can make sure that he does or doesnt like u AND u will not run yall gyze relasionship and if he says yes then be like i like u
2006-10-14 09:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by baybeegirl2894 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch that movie, The Tao of Steve. You'll learn everything you need! Good luck!
2006-10-14 09:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. If he feels the same way, then thats good. if he doesn't thats alright. There's plenty of fishes in the sea.
2006-10-14 09:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone feel something for you they don't. Just continue to be friends, if it is destined to become something more it will.
2006-10-14 09:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want sex - just say it. Buy condoms and lubricate. Be preppier for pain because of first time. Good luck.
2006-10-14 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Hopefully, he will agree to date you. If not, don't sweat it. You can't force someone to like you.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-14 09:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by fizzybubbles:-) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋