my GF didnt want to do anything except cuddle, kiss, rub and caress each other..as we went to sleep.
however, after i was asleep ( with erection still in effect )
she straddled me and inserted me..i awoke as she was riding...atop me, she said " oh i changed my mind , i want it now "i asked if we could just wait until wake up in a few hours..she said "why, should we your still hard .."??
do woman think a man is willing, ready and agrees just coz hes hard ? its not true, just as it is not true that a woman agrees to let me do her simply because hers is moist..wet or throbbing.
I wont complain, but i wonder if it had been me doing her while she slept would that be a different scene ?
2006-10-14 09:28:50 · 24 answers · asked by billybadazz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude you must be gay! If a chick starts riding me, I don't care if I haven't slept for days. If they want it, give it to them. Double standards are normal. Get used to them. Good Luck!
2006-10-14 09:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well, you are just making a mountain out of a molehill. She knew you wanted it but she said not at first. So she thought that "if she changed her mind" it would be ok with you. Now if the boot was on the other foot: lets say that she wanted it bad and u were saying no, and then u changed your mind. I guess that would surprise her (esp if she were asleep), but she wouldnt call it rape or harrassment! Now, u are a grown up man, you should know better than to ask such silly questions. And if you are hard and in the same bed as her, come on, you cant blame her!
2006-10-14 09:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Face it buddy. Women have the power. Besides it is true that I want it as long as I am hard. I don't care if I can't see straight and half asleep. If she wants to take it and ride it...that's cool with me. Also, if my wife is throbbing and 'moist' (I say "dripping wet"), she definately wants some action. Stop complaining and give it to her.
2006-10-14 09:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it would have been different. she did it to you, so why would she complain if you did it to her? there's no need for a double standard here. though i think what she did (ride you while you were sleeping) was wrong, she IS your girlfriend. you weren't exactly being force to do it against your will by some unknown assailant who had a gun in her hand. this should be something you should talk to her about. she need to be a little more understanding and little less selfish. take care. :-)
2006-10-14 09:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by young one 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is kinda bad. I guess the stereotype that men are always ready gives her the idea that she could just ride you. Do you think that if you actually told her "No, I do not want to have sex right now." she would have stopped? I'm sure you would if she told you that, so i dunno if it could be considered rape, but if you really don't want to, tell her.
2006-10-14 09:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is rape. You told her that you didnt want it when you woke up and found her on top of you, she didnt take no for an answer.
No means no, it doesnt matter who says no, whether it be a man or a woman.
2006-10-14 09:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that is definetly a form of rape. You are right, if the shoe were on the other foot, I bet she would have been really upset with you.
2006-10-14 09:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. some women do think that. 2. probably no, and yes it's male rape. If I were you I'd have a serious talk with your gf.!
2006-10-14 09:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by lill_angel_07_88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh for sure she would ahve been pissed if you were the one on top when she woke up.
some girls think they can do whatever they want to a man hit him, have sex wheever, but if the men do it back then its terrible and rape of harasment.
they want equality but still want to be treated different
2006-10-14 09:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
there does seem to be a double standard around this area
2006-10-14 09:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋