i'm usually aggressive and confident until one day of the week-the soccer games. i get so shy and act like another person and start thinking only:when is the game gonna be over. how do i not do that?
2006-10-14 09:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be sunny all the day.
good luck.
2006-10-14 09:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people would say you have something called situation shyness. Shyness in a certain area. In my opinion, you seem to be filming yourself in your head playing soccer than actually being present in the game.
You know the game is very much a mind game. Well, that means, "being in the moment", being there. You play, rather than watching yourself play and acting like a movie critic.
Here is a truth I believe. If you win, lose or draw, look like a fool or look like your were born in Brazil, nothing is more important than just being yourself and doing your best.
Your cannot be someone you think you should be, only yourself.
2006-10-14 16:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind on the game and cheer for your team! The mind can only concentrate on one thing at a time! Scream, yell and shout
encouraging things to the players. You will not be shy!
2006-10-14 16:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by cab veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na... I was shy but after my second language better I use it like another world and confident ever ... probably your emotion change with out control... You never know what would happened, sometime realizied more difficult... but that was a good memory, wasn't it? At leaset you scared that time ... lol ...
2006-10-14 16:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tonia D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe soccer isn't for you. You shouldn't do something that you dread. Try another activity.
2006-10-14 16:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USUALLY AGGRESSIVE/CONFIDENT.
DR. KAREN'S DIAGNOSIS:
I WOULD GUESS ITS NOT SHYNESS, BUT, PERHAPS
YOU HAVE "PERFORMANCE ANXIETY"
AND/OR PREFER
NOT TO PLAY SOCCER -
AUDIENCE DURING GAMES??
CAN IGNORE AUDIENCE AND DISTRACTIONS
FOCUS UPON OBJECT OF YOUR ATTENTION
BOOKS CAN OFFER OTHER SUGGESTIONS
2006-10-14 16:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is there anything special in soccer game?
2006-10-14 16:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you want to do do right now. Better later then never.
2006-10-14 16:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice
get more skill and speed
2006-10-14 23:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it again.
2006-10-14 16:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pitambri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋