i have been friends with him for like a year and me and my friends go to dances at there schoool. and we have a lot of history, and he was flirting with me a lot at this past dance. he asked me to dance 3 times and no one else. he also told one of my friends he liked me, so i had my friend ask him out for me and he said no. I am very depressed and confused. why is he playing these games? was he just playing hard to get? plz someone answer who has expirience!
2006-10-14 09:25:41 · 10 answers · asked by mae mae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may want you to be the one to ask him. Why would you have someone else, ask him to go out? you need to just do not worry about what he told your friend, and give him a call, say, what about us going out for pizza? just see what he says, If he says no, then just move on. Then it may mean that he likes the way you dance, or that at this point in his life, he does not want to get serious', it has nothing to do with him playing you, he may just want you to be a friend, and it is nothing wrong with that!
2006-10-14 09:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I had the same problem. My friend, I was his friend more then 2 years and I started to have a thing for him. He kept saying he had millions of girlfriends and I always thought he was messing with me. Now I don't really know, but he has signs that he likes me, thats why he was always my friend. Besides your friend is trying to get you, now he might like you more then a friend. Take a chance. He doesn't want to tell anyone else he likes you. He isn't playin a game!
2006-10-14 09:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he likes you and doesnt want anyone else to interfer with that so you ask him out start by calling him on the phone then ask him if he want to go out for a friendly dinner at the pizza joint and take it from there
2006-10-14 09:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he wanted you to ask him out and not your friend so next time ask him out he tells you no tell him good ypur loss and my gain to someone better then your sorry butt anyway good luck to you
2006-10-14 09:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hells no guy plays this coinda games he is an idot if he cant apreciate a women for who she is or if he does play games u should play a game yourself it is caled get over that looser
2006-10-14 09:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by francisco_j_c_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give up, move on.
Don't waist time for stupid games and enjoy dancing.
2006-10-14 09:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't ready to have a girlfriend. Give him space... don't try to force the issue.
2006-10-14 09:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him yourself. I personally turn down anyone that has their friend ask me and simply tell the friend that they should ask me themselves. Try it.
2006-10-14 09:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he was probably just playing with your mind or maybe he just wanted to have sex with you...thats how some guys are mowa days
2006-10-14 09:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say screw him and go out with me cause ure freakin amazing lookin
2006-10-14 10:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by circaskater56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋