there's this girl i like and i think she may like me, we go out around town together and things like that... but i want to kiss her but i don't know how to without being rejected...
2006-10-14 09:16:41 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
touch her hair tell her it looks beutyfull or something if the smiles start runing your hand true her hair and put your hands on her hip then u kiss her but remember only if she smiles wile u have your hand runing true her hair try it it workd for me 4 times
2006-10-14 09:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by francisco_j_c_o 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check francisco's answer. it's the best. the other's are not giving u a solution to your problem.
make sure u sit a place next to her. that cannot happen in a restaurant where u sit opposite, it could be on some bench at a park or near the london eye. sit close her, tell her she's got nice hair , 'are your hair softer than mine ?' and you should start moving ur hand there to play with them. if ,there's no hesitation from her then go ahead plant the kiss. if she asks u to take your hands off her hair, then she's not likely to accept the kiss anyway.
PS: you should attempt the kiss the first half hour of meeting her. dont drag for days n days coz her feelings for you will change into friendship and u wont be able to revert that.
2006-10-14 09:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your talking cool and being honest, so I will school you. I will tell you but you won't believe it. There is no magic way to approach a girl with a guarantee of not being rejected. NONE.
Take all rejections as a gift. They are proof you are still in the game. If a person in not in a monogamous relationship and is just dating around, they should be getting rejections all the time.
You don't count success. You count the failures. It's the true proof of someone who is out there connecting. Welcome rejection, don't hate it.
Think about what I'm saying. Super shy people, people who tell themselves they don't know how to talk to girls, people who become involved in games and Internet NEVER get rejected. NEVER.
Your welcome.
2006-10-14 09:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the jugular, not literally I hasten to add. You could spend weeks, months even wondering, worrying and having sleepless nights, wondering whether she'll want to kiss you.
Ask her ASAP, sure the worst possible scenario is she says NO but if she's genuine she'll let you down gently and probably say 'lets just be friends'
Ok, it's a rejection, but at least you've found out, and stopped procrastinating. They'll be plenty of other girls and you can move on.
Don't delay and you never know she might surprise you!
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
2006-10-14 09:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
slow down there tiger!
you need to go for the kiss only after some serious quality time with this girl, in territory that is NOT innocent or neutral. You need a romantic dinner and a long deep chat with it. Then if it goes well, kiss. Forehead first. Good luck.
2006-10-14 09:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it..I think she really does like you and she is wondering what is taking you so long to kiss her..nobody likes being rejected but if you dont make the first move then you will regret it...Good Luck I will be keeping my fingers crossed.
2006-10-14 11:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this advice: the more you are concerned about getting rejected, the more chances of actually she rejecting you increase. So just be yourself, and also watch her mood. Try creating that "special atmosphere", then give it a shot.
And, after all, even if you get rejected, she's not the only girl in the world.
2006-10-14 09:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say that you spend alot of time hanging out...so you must know her pretty well. Hold her hand, lift it to your lips and softly kiss. Look into her eyes and tell her that you like her...kiss her hand again....smile apologise( just as a precaution ) but let her know that even if she only see's you as friends then thats ok...try not to look offended if she prefers to stay as friends....after all honesty is important...you have to take the steps to see or you will always wonder.Good luck by the way ladies like gentleman....
2006-10-14 10:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you hint that you like her? Like, for instance, put your arm around her, or are close to her when you are out? Hint on it for a little bit, she will get it, and then go for the kill. Kiss her, and see her reaction.
2006-10-14 09:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of situation is not easy but I think you will know when to kiss her and if it does not go down well, at least you tried and you're not still wondering where you stand with her.
2006-10-14 09:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While sitting close to her reach over and kiss her. That way you will know for sure how she feels. Think of how great you would feel if she kisses you back.
2006-10-14 09:22:08 · answer #11 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋