Please Answer? How Do I get My Ex Back?

Question

We dated off and on for 9months. We broke up and didn't talk much. We maybe saw each other 3times in a three month period. A month ago we started talking a little more often. He repeatedly told me how much he missed me. I blew him off in order to play hard to get. Recently we started talking a lot and he told me how much he missed me even more (all via msn.) Then we began to flirt via msn. I started missing him to but never told him. Then he asked me if I was dating anyone. I said no. Then I said, and u? He said yes. What on earth should I do to get him back? I really miss him and don’t want to be the ex who is meddling with his new love. Any advice would be great.

Answer 1

I feel no sympathy for you. I hate little games, and that "hard to get" is the stupidest game of all. If you like someone there is nothing wrong with just saying it. Maybe now he is playing a game by pretending to date someone.

Answer 2

Why dont you just message him "I miss being with you, you ever thought about getting back together? I have" and take it from there.

Girls always seem to want some magical romantic thing to happen to solves all thier romance troubles but that doesnt usually work. By expressing how you feel and taking some initiative, you can often get what you are after.

Good luck

Answer 3

Hang out with him as much as you can. He'll get used to you being around again. Be spontaneous because If his new grilfriend is pretty and more outgoing than you it might just be easy for him to put you in the past. The more youre apart the easier it will get. For both of you. So close the gap. I hope it works out

Answer 4

I would tell him that if he wants to give you guys another try or take it farther than friends, than he needs to do something about his girlfriend. Simple as that. Not only will that show you how interested he really is on getting you back, it would also eliminate you as the "ex who is meddling with his new love".

Answer 5

ooohh.....that's a heartbreaker. Mmmm...I think you just tell him
if he ever splits up with that girl, you'll be around. Ask him how
serious he is about her ?? This way you'll know where you
stand, eh ? Tell him you are willing to, still be his friend......but
that you don't want to be in the middle. See what he says. I did
the same thing with my now ex, I played hard to get.....and it will
backfire on you, depending on how much the guy wants you. I
just don't know why he is saying all that stuff to you ?? Your
gonna have to figure that one out ??....Much Luck......

Answer 6

Tell him how you really feel and tell him you were just playing hard to get. If he ever really did love you then he will understand and possibly you guys will get back together!

Answer 7

I sense lack of trust! Once you lose that, you might as well forget him! You don't want to be a home wrecker. Don't be obsessed by him, you will only hurt yourself mentally. By dating someone else and eyeballing you, he wants his pie and eat it too! He gets to be with both of you- playing both of you for a fool. You can do better and you deserve better! Good luck!

DUMP HIM FOR GOOD!

Answer 8

might be better to let things go. he sounds like hes playing abit. wanting to burn both ends of the candle. having you and the new girl. it will take time to get over this but better to start new. read tips on dating and relationships to help you better on this site

Answer 9

next time you're chatting, tell him that you care for him and then ask him how he feels about you. tell him he can't play both sides. he can't be with someone else and then turn around and tell you he misses you. he's gotta come clean. otherwise, you can't continue talking to him.

Answer 10

you should keep talking to him and see how stuff will go but you need to tell him how you feel tell him you miss him and tell him you want to go back with him