i cant tell him cause i left him for another guy and that was stupid bcuz the guy cheated on me...and i want my ex back but i dont no what to do and how to tell him without seeming desprate...
2006-10-14 08:49:40 · 16 answers · asked by lipstick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ditched him. The least you can do it tell him how you feel and take it on the chin if he doesn't want you back.
2006-10-14 08:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gosh, those are not the only two men in town. You have to expand your horizons in my opinion. Otherwise you'll be playing the same old tune over and over in your life till you get too old.
There is a reason why you left your b/f for another guy. Explore that reason before you go further.
2006-10-14 08:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel! That is how I feel. I love my ex-boyfriend Allen Frazier but I don't want to feel like i am stupid. Because I want to go back out with him. But I broke up with him and now I am lonely. I still Love him. So I am right there with you.
You should tell him but try not to make your ex feel bad because then he will not take you back.
2006-10-14 08:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Megan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar thing happened to me...actually almost the exact same thing...and my advice to u is, gradually hint to the guy that u still like him...and that u would like to start over, bring on the idea more slowly...there's a chance that he is still hurt from when u left him.
2006-10-14 09:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him back you must tell him and not be concerned about coming off desperate. what would be worse telling him and coming off desperate or never telling him and having to live the rest of your life never knowing what could have been eating away at you. At least you will know!
2006-10-14 08:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question cause me a pain in my heart. because I assumed that the father of my baby he still very much deeply love(ATTACHED) to his ex-wife, and I think now his painful baggage
has made him does the wrong things to me and his baby.
*In my life I had 3 real love* I have never been a cheater, I have never left all my ex-boyfriends to another,
*And I never even think a second to get them back, or get back to them....whether they have an affair or cheating on me or not.
*For me ...if my man had put his c--k into another women* then it finished forever!
*You know what....you don't really love him, if you love him you would not have opened your legs to another guy....but now because your new guy have cheating on you...you just need 'comfort'....and the best person to comfort you is your ex!
*anyone who cheated or left their love one, he/she must have reasons of doing it, not doing emotionally, but most of us alway try to find the best reasons (EXCUSES) to be on our side.
*I ask you to rethink again of getting back to him,
how do you feel when your new guy cheating on you?
your ex-, he feel the same...perhaps it's even more worse than you....if you left him without he did anything wrong to you, or if you had an affair and left him....this is 'THE LESSON' that you need to be learn...if you think that you really love your ex-.....please leave him alone....and if he still love you...then when he knows that you get hurt...he will be the one who comes to you.
*GOOD LUCK* and promise me from now don't hurt anyone heart again....it's much more pain than the physical one.
2006-10-14 09:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him how you feel however hard it is. if there is a chance you could get back with him then take it dont be scared. but remember that you hurt him so be gentle, and if he doesnt want you back then move on theres plenty more people out there.
2006-10-14 09:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. I couldn't blame him if he didn't want to trust you again. But anyway it goes, it takes a grown person to admit that they were wrong, suck up their pride and ask for another chance. Good luck and God bless you!
2006-10-14 08:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advantageous he can "inform you" doesnt recommend u could pay attention to him even with the incontrovertible fact that.. and identity be the 1st one to tell him that's between u and your x spouse.. the alternative isn't his, its no longer even hers.. its the judges determination and till they get a judgement announcing u cant see or refer to ur little ones then neither of them can provide up you in case you have the right to attain this. Now without understanding the "total" tale, i'm going to declare this.. if ur incapable of being civil along with your x spouse, in case you get on the telephone along with her and initiate trashing His spouse, by ability of actting like a fool, or utilising your babies as pawns in some style of manipulating pastime that "some" mum and dad do, then i can work out why he felt the might desire to pass in secure practices mode for his family contributors, because of the fact even with the actuality that u are the father of those babies, and her x husband, he's the recent husband, and he's the "guy of the abode" in an effort to communicate and might desire to sense the might desire to guard his family contributors because of the fact they're married and by ability of marriage they're his family contributors.. so even with the actuality that he cant shop u out of your babies, if ur actting like a smuck, he could sense the might desire to guard their better half and little ones from exterior unfavourable impacts and that's his pastime as her husband, and the father functionality form in that abode.. so take a tricky inspect how ur handling the situation ... and why he'd sense the might desire to tell u that u cant see or refer to the youngsters.. in the adventure that your civil and do ur terrific as a father and not being stupid then purely tell him that he needs to decrease back off.. yet whilst u are being a smuck then u might desire to alter your attitude to this undertaking because of the fact if u have been nonetheless married to her, and a few out edge impression became attempting to fireside up hassle along with her or your babies, u could pass into protection mode besides.. so rather take a inspect the situation from a third occasion view...
2016-10-02 07:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you did the same thing i did and the exact same outcome too he cheated on me and i went back to my ex-...wow...you need to just tell him how you feel...he should understand!!
2006-10-14 08:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋